By: Sindy
Subject: Would you agree you're a 'normal' guy?
I have this issue where my husbands crossdressing has altered how I view him overall. Before I knew of it he was this funny, smart, professional, educated amazing man. Now, I look at him and wonder if he's got some weird female personality spinning at all times in his head. He says I look nice, I don't believe him and figure he wants to wear it. I'm an attractive girl, and I wonder if he's not jealous of this. He doesn't act like it, but does it annoy you that your wife is a pretty female and you're not?
Do you think differently once you start crossdressing? Is Davina another person talking in your head? My husband would think was nuts for suggesting this. I think a lot of wives wonder what the thoughts in their husbands head are like though.
Who do you see when you look in the mirror? Davina or male you? If it's the male, then why do most of you hate your body hair etc so much? How can you be happy being male when so much time is spent removing all traces of him?
Okay, that's a couple more questions. I'm keeping you busy lol.
By: Katie
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Normal?
I think their definition of sexuality is different from yours which causes confusion.
My guess is that what most wives fear is that their husband is gay or wants to become a woman. This is really to do with sexual orientation and not sexuality.
I think that crossdressing can be sexual, especially as a teenage boy when most things are sexual! You said yourself that you get 'horny' sometimes when crossdressing which the psychologist say falls within the normal male spectrum.