By: Sharon (Wife)

Subject: good Blog

I've been reading your blog for some time and it has helped me get my head around my boyfriend (Finance) crossdressing.

He's overtly macho plays rugby and no one he plays rugby with would think he would dress up as a woman.

I asked him if he'd read your blog and he said yes and related a lot to it, so I asked him would he like a girls night in bearing in mind I've never allowed him to dress when I'm home.

Well last night we did it and I put him through the embarrassment of dressing in front of me from scratch and he was clearly nervous but dressed expertly and did his makeup and put on his wig.

I couldn't really believe what I was seeing as he could easily pass as a woman I was a little jealous.

We had a nice night a bottle of wine or two and just talked makeup, crossdressing and had a good laugh about if the rugby lads could see you now.

I think it has helped me seeing him unwound and for once I felt the one more in control of our relationship.

I still don't understand it but it was a nice change to our Saturday night in and maybe we will do it again.

Keep blogging especially this current chat you have going on.

Sharon

By: Danni Tgirl

Subject: Blog

HI Davina great website very helpful and I think I'll show my wife.

Your blog interests me also.

Danni :)

By: Davina

Subject: Re: Blog

Thanks for the message

Yes I did nag my wife to add her thoughts in the blog as I thought it may help for other wives to hear her side not jut mine

By: Charlotte TGirl

Subject: Blog

Love the advice and the blog .

I'm like you wife knows and accepts would prefer I didn't cross dress.

She says I can pass as a woman and has read your advice and blog and says were very similar.

She asked if I though you coherced your wife into adding her thoughts and says she understands why you'd want her to be part of the blog but she probably doesn't know what to.type about it?

I also take opportunity to dress when away with work it's such an inexplicable stress release isn't it.

Keep blogging

By: Davina

Subject: Re: Blog

Thanks for the nice post Katie

Nice to know there are others out there in the same position.

I feel we're in a minority in the trans world and probably the least understood.

Did you see the 100% why I dress? 20% escapism from stress of male life (I just finished work now after leaving the house at 0730 attended a meeting then home and more work to do and just switches off work laptop.. supposed to be in another meeting tomorrow 2.5 hour drive away so 2.5 hours drive back plus the meeting time a long day so did some work tonight and offered them phone conference instead) a percentage is a turn on and so on.. I placed this in tvchix forum and some slated me for it but I guess they're not in our minority.. Diversity and inclusion eh?

Its good your wife tolerates and accepts it as something you do.. my wifes the same would rather I didn't dress but isn't worried by my crossdressing. Hope to correspond more D