Hi,
I have a wife who was initially very helpful with my little hobby. We used to shop together for clothes and even used to come along to some of the events I attended. She has known for almost 25 years and I first told her not long after we married. However, she became wary of some of the characters I used to circle with and decided the whole thing was decidedly strange and effectly prevented me from being Liz. I went for over 15 years without dressing to save our marrage until it all got a bit too much and I decided to start dressing again. She does know and has sort of accepted things are not going to change. She’s probably past caring now with are both in our 50’s! We do speak of my friends and the places I go, but she is very uneasy about it. I had some lovely shots done at a makeover session a few months back and I tried to show her the pictures (there are two of them on my profile). I had a very bad reaction and was told to never send them to her and to ‘respect her wishes’.. I would love her to see what Liz looks like and that I am not just some pervert in women’s underwear furiosuly mastubating! I always try to dress respectfully and as a real woman of my age might. Perhaps I should just leave it as is, but if she’d only look and see what I am really all about she might have a better undertanding.
Love Liz xx
Hello everyone,
I just thought I would update this so you know what is going on. My wife is now quite happy for me to go off and see friends, attend social functions, etc. However, she still has no wish to either look at Liz or have her in the house. She is perfectly OK with the whole thing as long as it isn't in the home, so I guess we are stuck with it. I have met some very nice 'girls' who I correspond and visit locally, but it feels a bit like I am single again when I am Liz. The biggest issue for me is having to still live out of a bag as I have to be able to take my dressing up kit and all my bits and pieces with me when I go out. So in someways it still feels like I am doing it in secret.
I have met a very nice 'girl' whose wife lets him dress around the house. I have even visited once and dressed as Liz and the three of us just sat around and acted normally, sipped on tea and had a lovely chat. My friend's wife seems to act like it is the most natural thing in the world and I had no problem slipping into my female role along with my friends and talking to her. In some ways I think my wife thinks there is some sort of 'funny business' going on, when in reality the whole thing was more like a mother meeting!
Anyway, love to you all. I though you might like to hear how I was getting on after you were all so kind when I joined the forum.
Love Liz xx