So we have the post on sexuality this week and what if theory / situation "You were crossdressed with another t-girl and drinking alcohol, and if it got flirty and what may happen if touched etc" which I think is probably a Wifes worst nightmare.. "Would my husband gott off and do things sexually with another t-girl when he's dressed??"
Most of us have so far said we'd not let it go anywhere ie we'd maybe meet socially but not looking for sexual encounters as T-Girls.. But some may want that.. Not good if married or with a girlfriend as it's cheating but some have justified it as being in a sexless marriage.. I wonder if thats as a wifes just gone off sex or because of the crossdressing??
So this has to be a wifes number one fear a Bisexual husband who crossdresses and does "whatever" and 2nd fear a T-Girl wanting to be 24/7 throught to surgery or not but living as a woman etc..
My question here for the wives is have you thought of it as marriege breaker not cheating thats another matter i mean the crossdressing - Could that alone be a marrieage ender? have you thought this? and have you thought as suggested of finding a "Real Man".. not saying we aren't real men because we crossdress.. suggestion of cuckolding or bossing a husband about or controlling a husband because of the crossdressing..
Interested in wives thoughts on this?
Davina
It wasn’t a marriage breaker for me as you know. My thought is it is just clothes and make up.
If you look back in history dresses, wigs and makeup have always been worn by men. As fashions have changed then so has society’s view on it.
I think there are far more things to consider in the question other than dressing. As you mention cheating is one of them and deceit is another.
My issue was deceit. I thought I could trust my husband and we had no secrets so it was a pretty big shock to find I was wrong on both counts.
Although my acceptance of his dressing was pretty quick it took me a couple of years to get my head around it. I still ask questions now and if I come across something that I wasn’t made aware of (very little nowadays) then I’m not afraid to ask. We have a laugh about it and it is something we now share as I accompany him when he goes out.
He has a place in the wardrobe for his things and I think he is more chilled now that he can be who he wants to be and without fear of being found out.