100 questions for a Crossdresser part 10

91.  How long does it take you to get all dressed up?

Years of dressing, having to hide it, even after telling my wife (The rule initially dress - leave no evidence) it was like I was back to her not knowing I got good at quickly applying makeup and getting dressed.

So I’d say it takes me 20-25 mins to transform to Davina and I’m made up and dressed.

I’ve found if I have more time to take my time I don’t do such a good job.

Take the Blue pill stay a Crossdresser - Take the Red pill just be a man all your life?

92. If you had a chance to remove your desire to Crossdress would you take it?

No - Simple answer - I enjoy crossdressing I’d not change a thing.

My wife may wish I’d have said yes maybe but no it’s enjoyable, it’s my escapism and its good for my mental health even if some would think it mental.

93. Do you have any female role models and if so who are they?

Lots - My wife for one, then its celebs mainly like 

Holly Willoughby, Davina Mcall, lately Olivia Attwood now shes on daytime TV, Suzannah Reid..

The way they dress and do their makeup and present themselves - I’ve had a dream once which I should have added to the dream question that I was on “This Morning” being interviewed by Holly Willoughby my wife sat next to me and me made up by the “This Morning” makeup artists talking about how I’m this normal man and how crossdressing helps me escape lol it was surreal and I’ve blogged about it on here as a Q&A.

94. Do you listen to anything while getting ready?

Not really no - Usually morning TV on GMTV with Suzannah Reid etc in the background.

95. What do you hope to accomplish by Crossdressing?

Stress relief, happiness, sometimes arousal, it helps my mental health immensely.

Not looking to accomplish anything apart from happiness and an escape from male me for a bit to unwind and enjoy a part of myself I keep well hidden and subdued.

96. What do you expect crossdressing to teach you about being a woman and the experiences associated with it?

I’ve chatted to lots of people and it’s taught me some men think of women as a piece of meat, how intimidating it could be for a woman out dressed nice made up heels having men look at them / approach them.

Mind you I’ve seen this when out with men in a group you have your normal respectful men like me (also a secret Crossdresser) married and loyal then you have your really sleazy guy with no hope of pulling the women hes oggling saying things like “I’d give her one”- She’d not touch you with a barge pole - So I see the threat to women.

I also appreciate that women have more of a choice in how to dress and look.

The magic of makeup any how femininity and masculinity are so far apart yet there are more women acting more masculine and femininity isn’t as apparent.

There's this thing women do in life maybe out of contentment.

A man married for years all of a sudden his wifes not in heels shes in flats, no matching lingerie etc - and a man isn't warned of this and we daren’t say anything ..

That's another thread as this is something that affects men which we don’t discuss with our wives when things change which happens all of a sudden and we have no say in it, 

97. Do your personal or political views change as a result of the experiences of crossdressing?

No I’m still me - Crossdressing is an escape but morally and politically i’m no different.

98. Has your views on relationships changed with crossdressing in your life?

Like I said I’m still me so I know I’m still normal apart from this part of my life (Crossdressing). 

My relationship though - Maybe my wife does view me slightly different as I'm a crossdresser? 

Would have to ask her - It can sometimes be our elephant in the closet.

I wish we could be more open about it.

We do share a private joke sometimes - But it’s usually in a moment where we’re not alone to talk about crossdressing

I think having a crossdressing husband may have more benefits than negatives - the comment

I’m nicer as Davina is something she should take advantage of.

It would be nice to compare taste in dresses lingerie etc - I’m happy to do more feminine things together chick flicks etc.

Our Girls nights in were fun getting dressed together etc

But for me Our relationship is our relationship we put others before ourselves and maybe need to be more selfish like going on holiday just the two of us having a date weekend or night at least once per month - affection and dare I say is sex more often and cut lose more often and even dare I say it normalise my crossdressing even more and have it part of our conversations without me cringing she won’t want to talk about it or she will change the subject and without her cringing or thinking here we go again his crossdressing!!.

99. What was you best Crossdressing experience?

My wife first meeting me as Davina in her lunch hour and hugging her as Davina.

Our 1st 2nd and 3rd girls night in especially the 3rd night was very memorable.

Going out in public as Davina a few times when not twisting my knee.

Going out with my wife as Davina (If only I’d not done my knee)

100. What was your worst Crossdressing experience?

Twisting my knee in london - Nothing compares to that it was gutting and put me on crutches for 4 months.

So there’s my answers to 100 questions to a crossdresser.. 

Davina