100 questions for a Crossdresser part 2

11. What was the first article of women’s clothes you ever bought?

Black lacy Knickers and stockings

12. What was the last article of women’s clothes you bought?

Lol Black Lacy Knickers

13. Long or short skirts?

Short but classy 

14. Do you venture out dressed? If yes how often do you go out dressed?

I have done in the past, when I’ve been away with work just leaving the hotel to get a phone charger form my car was the first time, then going for a walk was the start but I did venture in the car once when away with work and to Tesco browsed the clothing and bought a hair brush lol but not been out post pandemic - and been out once in London with my wife which was exciting but didn’t go fully to plan whatever our plan was.

15. If you could go back and change one thing about your Crossdressing what would it be?

I wish my wifes acceptance had been quicker, (Not a criticism of my wife), maybe if I’d come out to her differently - It was a step by step acceptance over a few years, maybe how i came out could have been different maybe I wouldn’t have told her I’d crossdressed all my life and that her dressing me up sparked my want to try it again and become a Crossdresser.

To an extent she did bunk me up a level with makeup and seeing myself dressed as up until then it was sporadic and mainly Lingerie, stockings / tights and heels - The years her setting rules and not accepting fully seem wasted and a lot of worry. So, maybe I’d have liked to have come out different and sped up the process of acceptance.

Even now I wish we were more open in our communication about my Crossdressing, as I sometimes need to talk about it and its hard to ascertain her mood or if she’ll cut off and change subject - I just want it to be a light chat and something we can laugh about and something we can both somehow find a bit of enjoyment in.

She does say I’m nicer as Davina.

Taking my advice, some wives I’ve helped have found acceptance in weeks where it took my wife a few years basing their speed of acceptance on mine and my wifes experiences - It feels nice that I have helped others come to terms with Crossdressing..

16. Do you feel being a Crossdresser makes you a better person? If yes how so?

Yes I think my brain is more rounded.

Living with 3 women I think I appreciate women more too maybe, but being one myself sometimes lol I definitely appreciate a lot of womanly or feminine things like walking a long way in heels kills your feet and calves and a bra after a few hours that’s under wired is nice to take off lol.

I can also see how some men think of women from a womans perspective from chatting to a wide range of people on line as Davina some are polite, charming just nice to chat to and normal to chat to and some just go all in thinking you’re gonna bend over for them or something like you’re a T-girl / Crossdresser so you must be Bisexual you must want men -

Nope.

17. How long were you dating / married before you told your significant other or spouse?

Probably 10 years although dating I hardly crossdressed in fact it may have stopped and crept back in a bit when we moved in together but not often.

It really kick started more after the night my wife made me up.

I wanted to see if I could do makeup and then escalated to if I had a wig could I look even more like a woman and took off from there and then become a bit of a coping mechanism after that - Urge to Crossdress to escape stress and strain of male me - stress release, mental health, fun, enjoyment..

Enjoying doing makeup and seeing myself as “Davina” and the feel of what I’m wearing the swish of a dress the feel of nylon, silk, lace and feeling sexy which I don’t feel as a man.

Reading that back even to me feels a bit weird but I typed it so must mean it and I do..

I enjoy Crossdressing and presenting as a woman as passable as possible - Even feel some pride in how I look.

18. What is your favourite article of clothing?

I love stockings (my wife would comment Stockings are Tarty) love black tights and high heels on women and love them on myself nice black lace lingerie and a nice dress.

I love sexy legs love stockings and heels (or tights) and usually black stockings / tights on women love how they feel and look on my legs (I think I have sexy legs - I think so any way)

19. If you have bought your own clothes,  have you ever had any issues with store clerks?

More than once I’ve had a store clerk ask if the items were for me or my wife? 

I remember the run up to Valentines day I bought my wife something in ASDA.. A sale rail had a basque I popped in the basket with matching knickers, I put stockings in the basket and a pair of high heels size 8.. 

I was alone at the clothing checkout at the back of the store and the female assistant said 'Are you buying these for your wife or you?' she may have meant for my wife to wear for me.. But my answer was something like ..“I’m going straight home to try it all on” as i walked off.. Leaving her high and dry ..wait was he joking?

I’ve had a few times “That will look good on you” teasing and I’ve quipped back with “I hope so”.. Or something similar.

20. What is your greatest Crossdressing accomplishment?

A few things 

I’ve been the number 1 T girl on TV chix twice and in the top 10 multiple times.

My wifes acceptance is right up there as not many understand a crossdressing husband

Going out in public as women with my wife in London despite it being a disaster in the end -

Long story but I think every time I’ve been out in public I’ve passed as a woman.

Davina