100 questions for a Crossdresser part 4

31. Have you ever purged your clothes?

No not in the sense of purging to try to give up.

My wife and I with me dressed decided on what was good on me what needed to go she suggested I dress more classy than trashy so all my very short dresses went, noting they were all hers at some point…

I regret letting one or two go - I actually went out of the hotel for the first time in one of those very short dresses omg what was I thinking I bet people were looking at my legs the heels I had on were about 4 inches too I went to the car for my phone charger and debated taking makeup off but decided it was done too well and waste of makeup so big breath and out of the room down the corridor (typically past someone) - past reception and past people smoking outside and a walk of about 30 m to my car lent in and got my phone charger and thought

“Wow I’m outside”

I hung about out there a few mins and then did it all in reverse back to the hotel room it felt exciting and liberating.

So no I’ve never purged and urge all T girls who mention the P word not to do it as they’ll regret it and will end up having to get more things in the future as crossdressing does not go away!!

32. Given the opportunity would you take a job where you could work as either your male or female self at any time?

Yes - I kinda do when I work from home lol (I enjoy doing my job as Davina I’m more chilled as I work) - But in the real world this can’t happen but I do imagine how if I could have a dual life I’d maybe go to work sometimes dressed as male me, sometimes rock up full makeup dress heels long blonde hair in a parallel universe where it would be ordinary to do so.

This is also a dream I’ve had a few times where in the dream I’ve gone into work as a woman and no ones notice or realised until I sit in a meeting and start spouting all this techy jargon and they realise it’s me and jaws hit the floor lol.

One of my wifes fears is my work discovering I’m a crossdresser.

Work don't know they’ve driven me to crossdress (stress) and have accommodated my dressing when away with work in a hotel lol.

We do have LGBTQ and Diversity and inclusion training and process / rules and even last week we were told we need to think about becoming a more diverse team when we recruit.

I did laugh to myself when I looked around the room 9 people 8 men and 1 woman one guys gay and I’m Trans how diverse do you want us to be? lol

33. Do you paint your natural finger nails or use fake ones?  

I’ve tried cheap stick on nails never had them painted which is a pity as I have good nails but painting nails isn’t something you can quickly remove so no.

Both kids have said Dad can we paint your nails and its a no from me.. Male me doesn’t have anything feminine about me.

34. What Colour do you like to use on your finger nails?

If I did paint them and the only very cheap sick on ones I’ve ever had were Iron man red.

35. Do you keep your toe nails painted?

No never painted them.

36. What colour nail polish do you like best on your toes?

Again would be Iron man red if i did.

37. If you wear make up what part do you find the hardest to learn how to do?

I’m pretty good at makeup.

I suppose mastering contour and highlighting sometimes my eyes.

I do enjoy makeup and have had lots of nice comments from people who have seen pics of me as Davina on line stating I’m very talented with makeup.

I’ve progressed from just foundation to using powder too and under it colour corrector and sussed you need to moisturise first, from eye liner to dashing my lashes with darker eye shadow instead and all the way to contour highlight and blush .. enlarging the lips a bit and glossing - I enjoy doing my makeup.

38. Have you ever had a professional make over?

The honest truth is “I’d love one” -  I bet they could make me look stunning and really passable as a woman and I’d learn more makeup tips and tricks - But no way would I pay the prices of these makeover places - Maybe I can win one in a raffle.

I’ve looked into a few even one where you can stay over the night in a nice area in a nice place thinking me and my wife could go there as a treat both have a makeover and photo shoot and be taken out from there all part of the service then back there and over night I’d get to be made up and a few changes of outfits and be Davina for 24 hours but was too expensive and not sure my wife would go for it.

I did look into discrete, travelling makeup artists who do Trans makeup for a girls night in -

Come here to do mine and my wifes makeup.

I even contacted a few by email but no takers or was again very expensive or unavailable when we could plan a girls night in I was going to tentatively book someone then ask my wife then give the makeup artist the go ahead and as well as the general area we live in the actual address to come here and do our makeup.

Not sure my wife would have gone for it outing me and us and our address as a crossdressers house sort of thing but these people are professional and need to be discrete as they’d lose business otherwise with bad press and reviews.

39. Have you ever worn a Bikini or other swimsuit?

I’ve tried my wifes on when away on holiday alone in the room in need of some crossdressing but never outdoors - Only ever in a hotel room abroad.

40. Do you own or have you ever worn a Wedding Dress?

No I don’t own one

But yes I’ve been dressed fully in wedding lingerie, stockings, heels and a wedding dress twice in my life. 

Eek my wife will kill me because the 1st one was her sisters!! 

We were house sitting I was there alone - I went to the bedroom and there it all was from the day before - It was too great a temptation so I dressed up in it all (they were on honey moon)

and it wasn’t just the once - Next time I was there alone I tried it all on again so twice - Oops..

I also wore my wifes wedding lingerie, stockings, heels and dress a few times - All this before I came out to her as a crossdresser - It was a thrill on both occasions but before I did the full makeup and wig so just crossdressing not presenting as a bride.

I was disappointed that on our wedding night I never got to take the dress off her and see her in the lingerie stockings suspenders knickers and heels (My wife not her sister lol)

But did get to wear it all myself .. Never in Makeup and Wig fully as a Bride tho.. Maybe we should renew our Vows and I get to be the Bride lol.. Only joking.

Davina