100 questions for a Crossdresser part 8

71. Do you shave your chest and armpits as well as your legs?

I hate hairs on my body - I’d shave my arms and legs all the time if I could it’s a battle keeping my upper body smooth. 

Armpit hair is gross, chest and back hair is yuck.

I try to keep smooth but its not easy using a razor, the electric one I have helps and I need to use some “Nads” again to remove body hair and get myself smooth for holiday for my tan.

I would love laser treatment to get rid of body hair.

72. Have you ever told anyone and they reacted badly?

Only told my wife she cried a lot so yeah reacted badly at first the asked if i was GAY!!

I’d never considered being a Crossdresser affected my sexuality at all - Love women!! And I never considered that would be her first question not that I’d planned coming out to her or researched it as the most common question from a wife is “Are you Gay?”...

73. What was your most surprising reaction when telling someone? 

Chatting to other wives of TGirls/crossdressers finding lots of accepting partners but that wasn't telling someone they knew I was a TGirl from the social media site we chatted on.

It’s been nice chatting to other wives of TGirls.

I think it’s easier for a wife to relate to someone else husband who is a crossdresser.

Reasoning is - You’re on pins not wanting to upset your husband or your wife when you're discussing your crossdressing but it’s easier to talk to another wife or for another wife to chat with another crossdresser as you can ask difficult questions knowing you’re not going to be offended or not like the answer as its not your relationship and its like a counselling session.

Both sides curious about crossdressing and just openly chatting.

I also think women I’ve chatted to anon on line in a chat room have the attitude that LGBTQ and crossdressing is cool - As long as it’s not their boyfriend or husband as I’ve reflected on in my blog on women who support LGBTQ and the Pride movement.

If they came home to find their husband crossdressed or with a man would they still support the Pride movement.. ??

74. For most women, taking the bra off at the end of the day and having a good under-boob scratch is the equivalent to a man scratching his nut-sack. Is it the same when you take off your bra?

Yes 100% especially a wired bra after a few hours of it sticking in me lol I get it ladies i get it.

75. How did you feel the first time you ‘dressed’?

As a kid wearing tights I just enjoyed how they felt on my legs

Moving to Lingerie there was more of a motive, a realisation of attraction to women, women in stockings, sexy lingerie heels, so first time after seeing a few catalogue lingerie sections wondering if my mum had this stuff trying it on was enlightening, arousing, sexual even.

I’ve blogged how when younger I had my first arousal and orgasm crossdressed and had no clue what it meant.. But kept doing it.

But my first time really crossdressed with makeup etc was with my wife her dressing me and ever since - It was an awakening to really crossdressing or becoming a Transvestite a word I hate - A TGirl - Dressing to present as a woman fully makeup wig the lot and using it as my great escape from male me..

I was a crossdresser but from 28 onwards I become a TGirl if that’s a better label for dressing fully made up as a woman to present as a woman or not at all.

Doesn’t change me as a man just gives me that escape from being a man for a bit and I somehow relax and that relaxation lasts for a while afterwards.

 76. How did you feel the last time you ‘dressed’?

It was a few weeks ago before school summer holidays and I felt fantastic.

Black Tights, heels, nice dress (of my wifes), makeup perfect, wig perfect - I just felt nice for about 5 hours working from home and after changing back for a while that feeling later although later felt and since felt Grrrr “last time for a while as Davina”.

77. Do you and your wife share clothes?

I wear her dresses - I’ve been washing, drying, putting them back.

She has borrowed tights and makeup and a dress or two back from me too sometimes.

Shes said a few times “Just wear my stuff” including when we’ve discussed knickers -  But I stay out of her knickers.. Ok maybe on holiday I tried some SHIEN ones on as I needed a fix and didn’t have my own with me.

78. What do you wish everyone understood about why you dress that no one seems to really get?

Where do I start - It’s harmless fun and most of the fears are misconceptions - I think it’s better to go with the flow as a partner and accept it’s something a man (maybe your man) does and enjoys than resist it and be negative about it as it will cause resentment in a relationship.

Believe me it is easier, fun even and probably more rewarding than you think to accept crossdressing as a Wife or GF - You are in control of the pace of it and the conditions of Crossdressing.

Ignore it or tell him to stop he’ll still do it even if he says he’s not - If it makes us happy to Crossdress and it does not harm whats the issue - If you can look at it as something fun, something you can share and don’t worry about - Trust each other discuss fears, discuss sexuality and all that and tell the truth you can live with and embrace a crossdreser.

Easy for me to say as a Crossdreser I know.. Trust me and if you’re the Crossdresser reading this tell the truth be open about why you dress and tell her you enjoy it and you reasoning why you dress.

79. Do you prefer skirts and dresses or pants?

I prefer Dresses - Dresses are my go to, have tried trousers and leggings / jeggings and skirts but prefer a dress.

I’d love my wife in a dress, tights and heels every day and sometimes think I’d prefer to be in a dress more than jeans, trousers etc lol Especially when I see women all dolled up at some event like a wedding or other function when I’m in a boring suit.

I remember going to wifes Christmas do in a suit and seeing all these women in ball gowns and heels, makeup, perfect hair and nails done - I was so jealous and my wife in a green sparkly dress with a big slit in it.. Back in the hotel room a lil drunk and so tired I wish I’d packed my wig and makeup and said if you’re going to sleep is it ok if I get dressed up and try that on for a bit..

80. How do you hide your 5 o’clock shadow?

Very close shave 3 blade razor, colour corrector then foundation, powder.. I’m blonde so its not too hard to hide compared to a guy with dark hair I suppose.

Davina