100 questions for a Crossdresser part 9

81. If you could go somewhere on the planet where not one soul knew who you were and publicly dress, would you?

Yes - It’s a buzz being out in public as Davina.

It would be nice to have the freedom to dress and present any way I like any time I like.

Does that make me Gender-Fluid nah I don’t present fem at all I’m either sporty, or smart male or from time to time feminine fully presenting I don’t add elements of femininity into male lifes clothing. (Oh apart from sometimes knickers under my male clothing)..

My wifes nightmare maybe but “It doesn't mean id do it all the time” - It’s a theoretical question and Yes id love the opportunity to be able to present how I like when I like and not have to hide it.

82. Do you think you’ll ever tell your children?

My wife doesn't want them to know they have enough pressure on them growing up and through their education without having to deal with a Trans father.

I do wonder if they suspect??

They said they used to hunt for Christmas presents - so must have come across my wigs, false tits..

Its a big one - It would be easier if they knew and I had more opportunity to dress.

But my wifes right - They have enough stress with their education and peer pressure without their Batman Dad coming out as Harley Quinn or Bat Girl.

83. What will you tell your children (if you don’t intend to tell them) and they find out accidentally?

Sit them down - Ask them what questions they have for me.

That would be interesting as kids these days know a lot more about LGBTQ than we did as kids and teens.

I’d have to come clean on why I dress I suppose the mental health stress release and how I enjoy it - and ask that they keep it to themselves and that it doesn’t change who I am.

… I’m Batman

84. Why aren’t women who wear menswear considered cross-dressers? 

They won equality lol

Women can dress and present however they like, with no judgement and now there’s us wanting to present as Women - Alpha males dressing up as women, makeup wigs the lot go figure.

We’ve become so toxically masculine that our only escape is presenting as a Woman and escaping being men for a while artificially - And it’s seen as perverted. Go figure.

A woman dressed like a man = Not a pervert

A Man dressed as a Woman = a pervert..

I have no real answer for this it would be a great debate with a woman.

Someone at some point in time in the Western world labelled fashion and image as - This is mens - Little tiny corner of a department store and you have cotton and jeans and sportswear or a suit and tie and the other ¾ of the store is womens makeup, lingerie, heels, dresses, skirts, tights, stockings etc etc - Equality?

Men - stick to your tiny corner and dress bland.

Women do what you like and oh if you fancy anything in the mens corner thats for you also!!

85. Where the hell do you find shoes to fit?

I’m a size 8 in womens heels so anywhere. I guess I’m lucky

86. What is the longest you have ever dressed for?

5 days in a row but only from say 0900-1430 so 5-6 hours -  Not a sustained time like a whole day or a weekend. 

A whole 24 hours as Davina would be nice get up shave dress and stay dressed all day and evening / night.. 

A weekend away as Davina would be really nice not having to rush to change back.

Imagine how chilled out I’d be and I’d hope my wife would enjoy the time with that “Nicer version of me”

87. Do your bra and panties have to match?

Hell yes - That's my rule - I love a matching bra and knickers set.

I bet TGirls are more likely to wear a matching lingerie set and keep them a set than most women.

88. Do you find there is a big difference between your male and female self? If so how?

Yes 

Male me is more aggressive, more arrogant and demanding more Alpha and more stressed

Davina my fem self is more laid back, more relaxed maybe more emotional and sexier lol.

89. Does it matter to you if you “Pass” or not?

Yes 

I like how I look and that I’ve been out in public and not been rumbled

That I’ve been the No 1 top Tgirl on TV Chix twice and in the top 10, that people message me to say i look nice , sexy even.

I dress for fun, escapism and I find it fun to try to look as a passable woman, I find it fun doing my makeup and stepping into heels and putting the wig on then checking myself out in the mirror.. 

My wife says my shoulders give me away - But also pointed out someone she knows (A woman) has broad shoulders and she once saw her broad shoulders from behind - And laughed thinking osf me as Davina.

So Yes looking to pass is on my agenda.

90. Do you “Pass”?

I think so - I’ve been out in public - Not been pointed at or laughed at and as above been told I look nice as a woman, voted top TGirl on TV Chis twice.

So yes I think I can pass - Maybe the older I’m getting, better at makeup and perfecting a look for my age maybe I can pass even more now who knows..

You dress and do your makeup to blend in - Not stand out.

Davina