Finally a Girlfriend..

Like I've said it wasn't a regular thing as a kid few and far between opportunities and urges, initially fantasy then fetish and I've never told my wife the last post that it wasn't just my mother's things I tried on.. oops she will think that's bad.. she may want to know which friends mums things I wore.. if you're reading this (to my wife) my lips are sealed.

Anyway I still didn't know the term crossdresser..

On TV we had Les Dawson a comedian who dressed as a woman and as I got older Lilly Savage and the Little Britain guys "We're Ladies don't you know" and of course Monty Python and the Holy Grail " I want to be a Woman Reg.. and I want to be called Loretta".. "You can't be a woman you haven't got a womb".. etc etc I didn't want to be a woman but still loved women and at 18 "I found one"

It didn't last long .. I started Uni and sat next to a girl in a big lecture theatre and we hit it off and again I didn't ask her out we just spent a lot of time together in uni, in the library and back at her student accomodation the down side was she was a smoker.. we kissed and sorted of dated for a bit but I hate smoking and we had an argument about it and that was that no bother.. but not long later in a nightclub with friends a girl came out with us I'd never met before and she was into football and it seemed a bit of a set up by friends pushing us together I naturally still shy brought up football and she responded also quite shy.. we ended the night snogging and I asked if I could see her again..

This lasted about 2 weeks as I was older than her her mother put pay to us seeing one another..

I was on a roll.. at a local disco early days of karaoke I sang a few songs which attracted a girl over to me .. I didn't want to be there a skint student but mates wanted to be there she came over said I had a great singing voice and we chatted .. she had to leave and I said cheekily (corny as hell) how about a goodbye kiss.. that actually worked we snogged and I walked her to the bus stop where we talked for a bit and she got on the bus to where I didn't ask but she had to be home as far as I understood to her mother's set time.. she was going on holiday and said I'll find you when I'm home..

Next day at football a mate said saw you with that bird yesterday like them older do you? Puzzled I said what you mean older she's our ages isn't she to which he said no she's about 30 and has 2 kids.. oops .. forget about it.

To a holiday with friends..a week in Cornwal

I met my wife.. I didn't know then she'd become my wife but I fancied her she was nice .. she obviously fancied me almost 2 years younger she'd turned 18 Id just turned 19 and met the love of my life ..

We were inseparable .. I still played sport but like my previous GFs this didn't fizzle out she came to watch me play sport and we spent a lot of time together and .. lost our virginity together, got engaged, got married and planned a family but first holidays abroad.

This is a crossdressing blog right?

Well this period of time I had a sexy girlfriend, we were sexually active 18 and 19 year olds she had and still has great boobs and she used to wear tights and very short skirts and heels when we were dating..

Crossdressing was replaced with a real girlfriend, real sex, someone wearing lingerie and tights and heels.. no need to compensate any more as I had my fantasy fulfilled. We fooled around a lot.

Crossdressing didn't stop entirely what was I 19 no longer wearing my mother's things.. internet was dial up but Google search wasn't around yet and I still want aware of others crossdressing or networking but I do remember my GF staying over.. I also remember my Dad saying she could have my bed I had to sleep on the settee and giving me a telling off as I'd snuck up in bed with her in the middle of the night what would her father say if he knew we'd let you sleep in the same bed?.. we were just sleeping.. actually we probably had our hands all over one another..

She left her bag for some reason, I played cricket and came home after the match to an empty house and saw her bag in my bedroom and yes I tried on her tights and knickers my first time trying my girlfriend's things..

At some point her parents were away and I stayed there with her for a week and I might have snooped her lingerie draws when there alone to see what she had noting her and her sister shared a room and her dad installed very squeaky beds so Bfs couldnt fool about .. good thinking.

We dated, got engaged, moved into a house together post uni when I got a job and then got married and 20+ years later we're still married adding kids to the residents in the house.

Crossdressing was more of less on stop but living together presented a new opportunity..

Davina