Hello

I'm a crossdresser.

The hard to understand bit or the bit someone will say "You can't be".. I'm an Alpha male, a leader of people, into sport, like to achieve things.. Family, Friends, Acquaintances, Work Colleagues would all describe me as Alpha.. Some even nock-name me Darth.. But..

I've crossdressed to some extent since I was a kid.. and to answer the obvious questions.

-No I'm not gay.. I'm straight.

-No I don't want to be a woman .. But I enjoy presenting as one sometimes.

-No it's not anyone's fault.. I started with a curiosity and a love of women.

So is my Alphaness an act? Is my fem side stronger and hidden.. all will be revealed in my blog

I'm now a few decades old, married and have kids, a very stressful responsible job and I'm still a Crossdresser or how I like to term it the more modern and friendly sounding T-Girl..

I used to play a lot of contact sport and be very fit, injuries and age means I'm now more likely to coach and manage than play .. that used to be a stress release for me being competitive and unleashing anger and frustration on a sports field but now my way of De-stressing is Crossdressing which I will explain in the blog.

I believe there is a Trans-Spectrum which can be thought of as a sliding scale from the left the guy who tries on a pair of knickers/panties (for readers in the US).. there's me somewhere in the middle presenting female sometimes then to the right hand side and an area I can't really comment on someone who has Transitioned and is now living full time as a woman.

My wife knows and accepts this part of me and the story of how I came out to her is in this blog and how we got to where we are.

My crossdressing has evolved from as a kid curious about women.

Hopefully people will enjoy reading about my journey and that of my wife.

I also run a Forum which I'll tell you about in another post called "Why do Men Crossdress?" Which I set up as a support forum for Crossdressers, Wives and Girlfriends..

Oh and I have a fem name for the purpose of calling my crossdressed self something "Davina"

Welcome to my blog..