More Q&A with AI

Hard to talk to someone about my crossdressing so I sometimes ask AI to quiz me and here's another Q&A session.

Crossdressing is often misunderstood—a personal journey that can be both deeply private and incredibly meaningful.

For me, stepping into Davina isn’t just about clothes or appearance; it’s about escaping the pressures of daily life, finding peace, and expressing a side of myself that usually stays hidden.

When I can’t dress or have no one to talk to about it, chatting and doing these Q&A sessions helps me stay connected.

I was messaged I looked good in my darker wig as opposed to blonde so heres digital me different hair lol

It’s a quiet support that helps.

Here’s an interview-style glimpse into my crossdressing experience, sharing what it feels like, what it means emotionally, and how it shapes my life.

Q: When do you feel most confident as Davina?A: Most confident when I’m wearing new black sexy matching lingerie, pulling on brand new stockings, getting my makeup just right, the wig perfect, and a nice black lacy dress with black high heels. That’s when I feel nice about myself.

Q: What emotional need does crossdressing meet for you?A: It’s the escapism it gives me—stepping out of the stress of being male me and becoming someone else for a bit. It’s a release of stress. Someone elae but still me just presenting different but also feeling different.

Q: How does stress affect you when you don’t get to be Davina?A: Stress builds and bottles up not because I can't cross dress but work, family, life, finances all worry me to different extents I just need some me time. I have a shorter fuse. I’m more likely to feel a bit depressed and like I can’t make time for myself with too many responsibilities being juggled.

Q: Do you feel that the male you is an act in some ways?A: Partly yes. I understand part of male me is an act, a front, a character, an attitude, alphaness people expect me to be. Im not really that arrogant.. When I dress, I actually have a more nurturing, calmer, kinder side and a more emotional side kept under wraps. Its there as a man but not shown .. Unseen.

Q: How would you describe Davina’s personality?A: Happy, friendly, helpful, sexy, flirty, beautiful, stylish.

Q: What would you want others to understand about your crossdressing?A: That it’s my unimportant important hobby, my escape, something that helps me chill out, destress, and enjoy—from getting changed and doing my makeup to stepping into high heels and seeing my transformation in the mirror to just chilling as Davina. It’s fun, harmless… my escape from male me.

Q: What’s a memorable moment with Davina and your wife?A: Probably my wife meeting me as Davina that first time in her lunch hour. Hugging her as Davina—it just felt right. The timing and my wife’s decision the time was right for her to meet me crossdressed her acceptance and what she said made it special.

Q: Are you open with others about Davina?A: No, I won’t be more open with others about Davina. It was hard enough to explain to my wife. It would be even harder trying to explain this “hobby” to others. The normal.misconceptions about cross dressers and the ridicule that comes with it.

Q: What would your perfect day as Davina look like?A: Waking up knowing I can spend 24 hours plus as Davina, no one interrupting.

Get up, shower, shave, moisturise, a light breakfast and coffee.

Then get dressed—hosiery, lingerie, heels, nice dress, makeup, and wig—knowing I can spend the day as Davina.

Maybe during the day a change of outfit, something casual, pop out for a coffee or shopping, then back home, another outfit change.

Documenting the day with selfie photos.

Spending the evening and night as Davina at home or even better on the train into Cardiff with my wife the usual husband and wife evening but with us both as women.. Singing, drinking maybe dancing, not late home on the train then going to bed as Davina. That would be cool.

Q: How do you feel after such a day?A: I’m usually still chilled for a while, although sometimes I wish I had another few hours the next day as Davina.

Q: Do you ever feel disbelief about your crossdressing?A: Yes, sometimes disbelief when male me thinks, “I crossdress? I can have girly thoughts and wants?”

I sometimes write a blog thinking more fem.and scoff at myself for something I've tyoed ams sometimes add in brackets that male me is cringing at what I typed.. Mad still if you knew male me that I become and enjoy being Davina.

Q: What small ways do you keep connected to Davina when you can’t dress fully?A: Sometimes I wear knickers or perfume.

I chat online with other TG girls or partners of TG girls. I blog about crossdressing.

Q: Is there a particular item that instantly unlocks Davina for you?A: Lingerie, stockings, and stepping into high heels—the last piece of the puzzle.

Q: Have you surprised yourself with how Davina acts compared to male you?A: Yes, shocked myself sometimes finding I’m walking as Davina and my wrist may be limp.

Sometimes I catch myself with a limp wrist as a man when alone thinking about Crossdressing.

Male me thinks, “What are you doing?!” (laughs)

Q: If Davina could give male you advice, what would it be?A: “Stop being such a control freak alpha male.” and cross dress when you have opportunity.. You tell others not to feel guilty and just do it take your own advice.

Q: How might embracing Davina more change your life?A: It would improve my mental health, give me valuable escapism, stress relief, and something I enjoy.

Q: Do you ever feel guilty about taking time for Davina?A: I feel more guilty denying myself opportunity to crossdress because of other things, people, or plans.

Q: Why do you think you deny yourself that time?A: It’s not so much guilt; it’s more putting others before myself—in work and at home. The pressure I put on myself to be perfect, to please others. Like doing housework on a day off instead of having a Davina day.. Stupid.

Q: Have you found ways to sneak in a bit of Davina during busy days?A: Yes, chatting online with other TG girls or wearing knickers Helios but can't beat a few hours full-time made up and dressed.

Q: What advice would you give someone starting to explore crossdressing?A: Don’t feel guilty. You’re doing nothing wrong—just enjoy it.

Q: Is there a scent or place that helps you feel more Davina?A: Scent, definitely nice perfume.

Q: Do you have a favorite perfume?A: Not really. I have two perfumes my wife didn’t like—they smell nice on me—and one my sister-in-law left here that I liked.

She didn't ask for it back son I eventually used it and finished it.. It was nicer on me than on her .. Funny how perfumes don't suit some people but do others.

Q: Any story about that perfume?A: I used it up! It smelled bad on her but nice on me.

Maybe a little naughty that it was my sister in laws.. It really didn't suit her so I did her a favour.. Smelt delish on me.

Conclusion

Crossdressing I've called it a hobby but for me it is more than a hobby—it’s a vital part of how I manage stress, express myself, and find joy.

Being able to transform into Davina gives me a sense of freedom and peace that’s hard to put into words.

When real life gets busy or complicated, and when there’s no one around who truly understands, having a space to chat, reflect, and explore these feelings—like these Q&A sessions—makes a huge difference.

It’s a way to recognise my crossdressint, how much I enjoy it when I can’t fully step into high heels.