No 3rd day in a row
- Davina Legs
- Mar 28
- 2 min read

No third day in a row but being home alone albeit knowing one of the kids could be home unannounced any time today I didn't dress and also because i had 4 meetings scheduled over TEAMS video one with my boss which had to be on cam, one with my boss's boss which also had to be on cam, one with someone from another area seeking my advice and one with a national engineer a bit of a catch up and throwing ideas about..
I did have the urge today to make it 3 days in a row end the week with a bang and be totally chilled..
SO i was in man mode exactly how these people expect me to be in a predominantly male environment macho job..
As I'm on with each of them i know I have their full respect and they know i speak my mind and say it as it is and also back everything up with facts before i enter the Colosseum for a scrap I'm thinking to myself to the right of me is the cupboards with my makeup in.. On top of the wardrobe is my bag with wigs, heels, lingerie and hosiery and hung up are my dresses.. and these people i work with would have zero idea that the last 2 days I've been sat here expertly doing my job as a red lipped bob haired blonde in black tights and heels and nice dresses..
Then i thought what difference would it make if i was on cam with them as Davina??..
OK they'd be massively shocked that Alpha male me that they know but in work we have diversity and inclusion training and policies which I've read.. it's light on any mention of crossdressing but does mention transitioning which doesn't cover me.. I'm sure i'm not the only employee in my company working from home presenting as a woman.
Back to my thought "What difference would it have made to the conversations and decisions made in 4 work meetings if i had been presenting as 'Davina' ??".. It's still me I'm still this expert in my field just presenting different and i think that in general about myself and my wife.. I'm still me when she sees me crossdressed .. Although she would freak if i was out to work as Davina as she thinks it would affect my job and life if they knew.
They aren't going to know but again yesterday dressed i logged into a TEAMs briefing with 40 other people and instead of using my laptop used my Ipad and covered the lens just incase lol.
Made me laugh a bit thinking what would have been different on those work calls comparing me in tshirt, joggers and trainers to tights, heels, and a dress.. Nothing..
I was wearing knickers tho as thought i can't dress but i can at least have lacy undies on more comfortable than boxer shorts..
Davina
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