Our Wedding

I stayed out of most of the planning of our wedding the semantics of the day weren't important to me what was important was I was marrying the love of my life could care less if we'd done it in a registry office, a beach, gretna green .. but we had the church wedding, family and friends etc and it all went so quick.

A great day and then back to our house.. the next day we were off on our honeymoon..

We didn't offer anyone our house to house sit .. can't trust people they may be Crossdressers ..

Anyway a long day both shattered .. my wife carried over the threshold and a kiss before she declared she was ready for bed.. I jumped into the shower quickly and went up with her expecting her on the bed in wedding lingerie, stockings and heels ready to consummate the marriage I was excited entering the room couldn't wait to see her and feel her in the wedding lingerie .. wondering what it looked like as I'd had no idea..

She was in bed naked the lingerie and dress and stocking a on the bedroom floor I was a little disappointed.. we watched the wedding video back on our camera corder then went to sleep.

Next day a meal, people round to see us open wedding presents then off to the airport and away on honeymoon.

My wife had a bath that morning .. I went upstairs and tried on my 2nd wedding dress wedding lingerie stockings and heels briefly noting I'd missed out on seeing and feeling her in the lingerie and wow was it nice.. I tried it all one when home alone one more time when back off honeymoon.

Married life was good, we holidayed and enjoyed being married for a few years before we had kids and my crossdressing although sporadic continued.

If I had to put a frequency on it 4 or 5 times per year.. again you probably envisage a crossdresser dressing every opportunity..

We're also now talking 22-23 years old and I've still not told my wife I'm a crossdresser.. was there any point I wasn't doing it very often and did it to feel the material on myself ..

There are many reasons we crossdress and I'll do a main summary in a blog but I've named a few..

Substitution - when younger wearing things I'd like to see and feel on women .. we'll come back to this in a leater blog.

Kink / Fetish - Dressing and getting off on it.

Liking the feel of the clothing - silk and lacy material of women's lingerie and dresses nylon etc nicer feel than male clothing

Theres 3 reasons for now .. there are more reasons and they vary across different people who crossdress and if we were to create a pie chart and ask Crossdressers to put a percentage into each slice of pie it will differ in percentage across different Crossdressers.

The next post .. how I came out to my wife as a Crossdresser .

Davina