Sometimes life gets put into perspective :(

Life has a way of putting things into perspective when something truly important comes up.

Today, for example, it was our daughter’s health. We rushed her to the hospital to make sure everything was okay, and while we await further tests, the priority shifted entirely to her well-being.

It’s moments like these that make me realise how, in the grand scheme of things, things like crossdressing—can feel almost trivial.

It's the "unimportant important thing" in my life, the thing that provides relief and joy, but not the thing that demands my full attention when life’s more pressing matters arise.

I’m sitting at home with my daughter now, keeping an eye on her as she rests, while my wife has gone to a wedding evening—something we were all supposed to attend.

I can’t help but think about the women at the wedding—their immaculate makeup, elegant dresses, high heels, and of course, the bride in her wedding dress.

It's moments like these when I realise how much I admire how women "dress up" for such events, looking their absolute best.

I’d probably be a little envious too. And though I sometimes wish I could be there, wearing a beautiful dress, walking confidently in heels, (in my head) I know I would just be observing with that familiar admiration and jealousy.

But today, in the midst of everything, the reality is that my role right now is as a father, making sure my daughter feels safe and cared for.

That’s my main focus, and for good reason.

Crossdressing, as much as I enjoy and sometimes need it, isn’t a priority in this moment.

The love for my family—my wife, my daughter—takes center stage. They’re the ones I’m here for.

At the end of the day, I’ll still find my way back to Davina, but today, life had other plans.

There's always something bigger, always something that puts things in perspective or as I added in another blog "there's always something".

Davina