When the Opportunity’s There… But It’s Not the Right Day
- Davina Legs
- Jul 1
- 2 min read
Sometimes the conditions seem perfect—or nearly perfect.
The house is empty. I’m working from home. There’s no one around to interrupt or judge.
The window opens wide… and yet, I don’t step through it.
Today is one of those days.

I could have had a Davina day. The house is mine. I’m not expected anywhere in person.
But the reality is: I’ve got too much work to do, both during and after office hours.
It’s also far too warm—already sweltering by mid-morning—and I’m almost out of foundation.
That alone would probably tip the balance, but combined? It’s just not happening.
And that’s okay. Really.
Part of this journey—this whole dance between everyday life and the part of me that is Davina—is learning balance.
Taking the opportunity when it’s right, not just when it’s available. Although sometimes we should take the opportunity because it's there - I may regret not dressing later especially as the house will not be me alone the rest of the week as I've just found out..
Now kicking myself I didnt dress.
Crossdressing isn’t something I want to rush.
I don’t want to be sweating under a wig while half-heartedly dabbing on makeup between Teams calls.
That said… I do feel the pull today.
And I know another chance will come. Maybe next week, if it cools down and the house is quiet.
If I can get through the work, maybe I’ll earn a day for Davina. A calmer, cooler day when I can take my time, do my face properly, slip into something lovely, and just chill 'en fem'
Because as long as I get a few of those days each month, I’m happy. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. It’s about listening to what I need—and when.
Davina
I know Davina that you really only like to do full makeup wig and dress. But for me over the years if I have not got the time to be fully Coleen I will compromise to keep my sanity. I will wear a bra with forms, holdups or even knee highs and heels and maybe a skirt or dress. And just move about the house I am lucky it is just my wife and me in the home now
No wig no lippy no suspenders.
These days I wear panties everyday regardless in colder weather stockings and suspenders and maybe a camisole.
I am hoping to have a chance to dress in a couple of weeks and hope the conditions are right for me to indulge . Thanks again for your blogs they keep me going.