When you need to dress and can't

Over the years with the kids getting older and the pandemic then my oldest in local college a 5 mins walk away the last 6 years Davina time has been really limited.

When I think back how occasional I was a few times per year as a kid, teen, 20 something into my 30s I was a crossdresser by definition but it wasn't a regular thing..

Mid to late 30s and into my 40s I was lucky enough to work from home due to the role in work I had I could spend a day or two having to work from home to get things done in private.. the kids from infants, primary and secondary school locked in set times apart from half terms ,teacher training and summer holidays and I worked away a few times per month so had opportunity to dress plus those few Girls nights in when my kids needed baby sitting.

I remember knowing it was going to get awkward my oldest sitting exams and approaching exams a week in May of revision classes..

I was working from home so was my wife it was post pandemic and I spent 5 days in a row as Davina my wife seeing me 5 days in a row as Davina and how chilled I was.. up every morning kids off to school then I'd become Davina working from home..

The weekend would have been a 5th day my wife was going out with her mum and sister for the day till the night, both kids planned to be at friends sleepovers and I thought if these sleepovers are early I've got the bulk of Saturday and Saturday evening as Davina having a good dress up try on and photo shoot and maybe if I could I'd go and pick my wife up from the train station as Davina.. that was just a thought as I'd have to give her mum and sister a lift home and put myself as a crossdresser..

The week was nice different outfits and looks each day but working from home and changing before the kids got home.. then the weekend free nonwork just Davina time..

An then the youngest threw up on the Friday night and bang went the weekend Davina time..

That was my last hope of some quality time to myself as Davina it's 2025 now this was over 3 years ago.

Post exams my oldest off school until September college and opportunity for 2 years of college was rare as lectures cancelled and home early and I'm caught red lipped and in heels as Davina.. so 2 years I think in total I dressed 6 times none of it quality time..

Hard when you're stressed with work and life and Crossdressing has become your outlet for stress and made me think of the opportunity I had when they were in school which I didn't take..

I'll have the same in 18 months time when my youngest does exams then hopefully 2 years of college and opportunity dries up so need to make the most of what time I can get..

However work meetings face to face.. video meetings on TEAMS it's not easy to make time to dress fully..

Just need to grab what I can.

Davina