I always check agony aunt sites to see if there's anything new here's a new one.
The Confession
IF I could wear stockings and sexy undies I would be able to perform better in bed – but I can’t pluck up the courage to tell my wife I need to dress up.
I am 41 and I have been cross-dressing since I was 14 and I loved trying on Mum’s dresses when she was at work.
I thought it was just a phase but the urge has got stronger over the years.
It is now affecting my sex drive because I have trouble getting aroused.
My wife was against the idea of cross-dressing when I raised it with her before.
But I now wonder, if I’m honest with her, can we work out a compromise?
The Agony Aunts reply
The need to express your feminine side is part of who you are and won’t change, no matter how your wife reacts.
She may, though, be reassured to hear your lack of sex drive is not because you fancy her any less.
Talk to the Beaumont Society for support (beaumontsociety.org.uk, 01582 412 220).
What would your reply and advice be?
I expect she is objecting and rejecting his crossing so why then she'd want sex with him dressed is understandable.
Why? may be the way hes told her or approached this we can't tell from the letter.
Compromise needs acceptance and she needs to see that curve Davina put here and see where she is and where she could be and if she wants that or not.
I think this is the safest place I've found for us wives to chat and add thoughts interlaced with you t girls posting and wish it was easier for wives to find.
Weve seen sexualised sites and we've seen feminist "it is a disgusting perversion sites" this one is balanced.
I added a star wars term to another post thanks to my husband reading over my shoulder and he says this forum brings balance to the crossdressinfg world says its for crossdressing Jedi. I just think we're all grown ups here and talk and think in a more grown up way and help to support one another.
Emma (Wife)