Another new Agony aunt query on line
Confession
WHEN I was 14 I tried on my sister’s clothes – and have been cross-dressing ever since.
My wife is supportive but my need is increasing and I am scared it will drive her away.
I am 29 and my cross-dressing started when I was staying with my older sister at her house and she rang to say she would be late home.
I went into her bedroom and tried on some of her clothes, tights and high heels. I felt so good and felt that I looked it too.
I carried on and occasionally started going out dressed up. Cross-dressing has boosted my confidence so much.
I have an overwhelming need now to cross-dress more often. I love my wife and don’t want to lose her.
Agony Aunt advice
Feeling the urge to go more public is a common element in cross-dressing, wanting more and more people to accept that side of yourself.
You need to talk over with your wife how you can handle this longing in a way that doesn’t distress her.
And contact the Beaumont Society (01582 412 220, beaumontsociety.org.uk)
What would you advise?
29 you'd think an age where women are more accepting we're a bit older maybe its our age more accepting?
Emma (Wife)
Agreed instead of writing to unhelpful agony aunts join us here
This guy needs it to unwind hes like some here
Pity him and his wife cant find their way here
Hannah (Wife)
Agreed Emma this t girl needs to join us here and bring his wife as this one could be resolved to some level of understanding and acceptance. The fact she's gone out dressed obviously an advanced tgirl and I wonder if his wife knows he's gone out dressed. Seems the confidence boost and enjoyment is a positive aspect to work on in discussion which she may not get or understand but might at some point accept. Davina
This t girl needs to say all this to her wife about confidence, the enjoyment and escape another case of talk talk talk and then find a way to make this work as a wife with him dressed or allowing him to dress in private.
Sounds like its another t girl enjoying the transformation and to stop wouldnt be good for his mental health he's been doing this a long time.
Emma (Wife)