Another Agony Aunt post

Confession

SINCE my wife caught me wearing women’s clothes and make-up the other day, life has been hell.

I used to think cross-dressing was a phase that would go away but the older I get, the stronger the urge is.

I’m a man of 48. My wife is 45. We’ve been married for 20 years.

I’ve tried discussing it but she shuts me down. This is affecting my sex drive and making me miserable.

I could perform if I was wearing stockings or make-up but my wife won’t hear of it and I now struggle to become aroused.

I have told my wife I won’t cross-dress again but I know deep down the urge will never go away.

Agony Aunts reply T

he urge to cross-dress will be a deep-rooted aspect of your personality which you can’t change at will but your wife probably feels this is not what she signed up for when you two got married.

Tell her you love her and that this is no rejection of her but you cannot simply suppress this.

What would you advise?