Taken from a mainstream overated agony aunt from a rag of a paper...

I DON’T think of myself as a cross-dresser – I just wear silky women’s knickers once a week for a treat. Now I think my wife has found out.

I buy knickers myself and secretly wear them to work. When I get home, I pleasure myself then quickly change before my wife gets in.

I think my wife has found out I wear silky women’s knickers

Last night I forgot I was still wearing them and she must have seen them when we went to bed. She asked me what I was wearing but I brushed it off. How do I bring it up? We’re both 34.

Agony aunt SAYS: Did you really “forget” to take the knickers off? Maybe you wanted to talk but lost your nerve. You aren’t causing any harm and she didn’t back off in disgust, so be brave and raise it with her.

First, get in touch with the Beaumont Society, who can give you advice (beaumont society.org.uk, 01582 412220).

My e-leaflet on Worries About Cross-Dressing will help too

Davina – Poor advice from the Agony Aunt as usual with a reference to the beaumont society – Has anyone ever contacted them? And there is no e leaflet that I can find.

So this guy likes to wear silky womens knickers ok easy to sit down and discuss this with his wife surely.

Can we talk about something ? I really like the feel of womens knickers as opposed to boxers and briefs.. see what she says.

Forgetting and being caught id not question a mistake on purpose as the agony aunt has somewhat patronising but he should now say lets talk about the other night yes I had knickers on and admit to liking wearing them.

What do the rest of you thnk about the agony aunts answer?- She gets paid for this advice

Davina