Sindy said that she felt that her husband had an emotional bond with his crossdressed self. It was that relationship with 'another woman' that she found difficult to accept.
I know that I've never made a distinction between my crossdressed self and myself. It is just me dressed differently. 'Katie' doesn't exist a part form on forums.
So do you feel that your crossdressed self is an alter ego that you have to pamper or it is just part of your personality. You may even have a differnet take so eager to listen.