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Grab the opportunity

That's my advice to you..

Before the pandemic 2 kids in school I was able to work from home when they were locked away behind the school gates guaranteed 0900-1500 whilst avoiding video calls where were rare pre pandemic.

I also got away with work across the UK a few times per month and would pack my heels, dresses, makeup etc and work till late in the hotel all rolled up avoiding other work colleagues with the excuse I have work to do

Then the pandemic we all found hard as Crossdressers especially if not out to wives and following this kids older finishing school starting college, not needing baby sitting and coming and going whenever they want it really limited me to a few times per year as Davina and the benefits of escapism and mental health massage I get from being part time Trans.

So as I've stated grab the opportunity when you can if it's available.

I've more or less got a 3 week window available with the house to myself most days when not in the office and if I keep my webcam off and I've started with a bang 4 days as Davina highlighted in the photo with 4 different days dresses and makeup.. it's been nice but still a bit on edge hoping no one requests a cams on web chat or a delivery comes which we've been waiting for outing myself if I answer the door fem lol..

So my advice if you have the opportunity to crossdress take it..

10 comments

10 Comments

rgwhannah

Jan 19

Wow Davina sorry I've not been on in a long time but wow you're more beautiful than ever you've really mastered your look and your makeup.

Hope you can remember me.

Hannah (wife)

Davina

Jan 19

Replying to

Of course I remember you x

And yes love playing with makeup he says knowing anyone who knows him as a man would immediately think he's so funny as if he'd play with makeup.

Emma Alta

Jan 15

I took your advice and managed a few hours yesterday and today to practice full make up and that process. Only had less than hour fully changed but the few hours worth grabbing despite the curtailed time

Davina

Jan 16

Replying to

I dressed last week Mon-Thurs and doing the same this week once the house is mine this morning I'll be shave, shower, moisturise, primer, colour corrector, foundation, contour, highlight, blush, eyes, lips, hair, lingerie, tights, heels and dress and then a few hours work avoiding video calls with my camera on lol then 1430 back to male me taking the opportunity I have these first few weeks of January.

Davina

Jan 19

Replying to

Showing off now.. 4 days week before last and this week 8 times in 2025 just in January in the first 19 days which is more than the whole of 2024

Emma Alta

Jan 10

I think you’re right. But does anybody else have a massive comedown after dressing (not talking sexually here) when you go back to drab? I think I dislike that feeling - it stresses me out constantly wondering when I can dress - more than dressing. So I end up ‘putting Emma away’ until the urge gets too strong and a potential opportunity presents itself

Just me?

ally4322022

Jan 10

Replying to

Definitely not just you. It's such a high to properly get dressed but such a pain if I can't give it the time it deserves. This is why being Ally has been almost impossible the past 2 years.

Davina

Jan 10

Replying to

I don't like having a timeframe.

So this week all 4 days dressed with it being so cold have taken youngest to school 0800 back 0830ish with traffic then bit of work email, shower and slowly get changed and made up whilst working in between until rolled up then worried about video calls, knocks at the door, oldest returning home early giving myself until 1430 to undress and remove makeup and thinking "but I'm not ready to change yet to a set timeframe as time went so fast all dressed and made up and working"

So yes a bit of a come down having to change back at a set time.

ally4322022

Jan 09

Looking great, particularly like the blue flowery dress. Got a slight look of Gabby Logan going on. 😊

Davina

Jan 09

Replying to

Oooo I'll take comparison with Gabby thanks.