Others may have the same i guess but sometimes you get a need to dress and use it to escape or unwind from man mode and work when work life balance is skewed and dressing as a woman helps.. Don't ask it just does accept it and move on lol
Then there s opportunity to dress but not the urge as you have things to do.
Friday a day off work Esm e out and about with work both kids in school then after.school.going to friends and the house in need of a good winter sort out.
I started sorting things out then thought shall I dress nah too much to do then thought I could be dressed from about 0930 until 1830 or later if both kids stay in a sleep over..
Nah to much to do then 1030 sod it I'll dress so ent for practical jeggins, boots and blouse with hair back in a clippy thing and makeup.
I was only dressed for an hour booking hot from the work i was doing and thought sod it and changed back a wasted opportunity to spend quality relaxation time as Davina.. The root cause a messy house which the kids can't seem to grasp they need to help.
I won't get a similar opportunity for a while I don't think to dress for that amount of available time so opportunity blown?
Do others have this need v oppor tunity sometimes opportunity but no need and vice versa?
Indeed seeing Susannah Reid this morning in a nice red dress have my an urge to.dress but no opportunity.
Can't foresee any opportunity until.early 2019 but at least I'm off work the next two.weeks so stress levels should be low.
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Hi Davina. New to the site, so excuse the lack of info on my profile.
Regarding your post, this is so like me too.
The urge/opportunity thing happens a lot with me. Also the slightest thing can induce the urge. Seeing an ad on television or a well dressed lady in a program. I get that horrible feeling of missing out too, if I decide not to dress when I have the chance to and don’t do it. Such a fine line to draw.
What I am hoping for, is for my wife to agree a day where I can dress (eg Thursday etc) and she won’t come home until a particular time to give me the chance to dress given the urge. Not a day where I would dress everytime, but some free time should I require it. Whether she agrees is a different matter though.
Going back to your original subject, it seems we are very similar in what you say.
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Had to have a think about this one.
From my perspective i find i have an Urge to dress most of the time, so any opportunity i get other than my weekly 2-3 hours i try to make the most of.
I have had times though that the opportunity has arisen and I've thought, no i can't be bothered but then after a couple of hours thought again and felt I'd wasted the opportunity very similar to yourself Davina.
But as a rule i try to make the most every chance i get.