Davina - This will be an interesting article lets read it live and comment as i go through as usual and hope the writer understands the feelings of wives and girlfriends,
If you’re a crossdresser in a relationship, you may wonder how to best satisfy your partner.
Whether you’re looking for ways to spice up your sex life or simply want to strengthen the emotional connection between you and your partner, there are many things you can do to ensure that your relationship stays healthy and happy.
Davina - I think step 1 in assurance ie assuring your wife / gf is ok with you dressing and acceptance hoping your wife / gf accepts you as a t girl.. Lets read on ..
In this blog post, I’ll share some tips to help you satisfy your partner as a crossdresser.
These tips will cover both sexual and platonic aspects of your relationship and are designed to help you build a stronger and more fulfilling connection with your partner.
I understand that everyone’s relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another.
However, I hope that the tips we provide will serve as a starting point for you to explore ways to satisfy your partner and build a deeper, more meaningful relationship.
So whether you’re an experienced crossdresser or just starting to explore this aspect of your identity, I invite you to read on and discover how to take your relationship to the next level.
With a little bit of effort and a lot of love, you can create a relationship that is both satisfying and fulfilling for both you and your partner.
5 Tips to Satisfy Male Partner
Davina - This is an unexpected turn but I’ll read on hadn’t expected the first part to be about satisfying a man as a crossdresser lol.
To satisfy your male partner as a crossdresser, it’s important to understand what they like and to be open to exploring their desires.
Here are some tips that focus on the partner’s perspective:
Understand and Communicate with your Partner
Take the time to understand your partner’s desires and what they like and don’t like.
Ask what their sexual fantasies are, what they like in bed, and what their fetishes may be.
This will help you tailor your approach and ensure your efforts are appreciated.
If he likes to take control in the bedroom, then be his obedient sissy.
Make him feel like a man and show him that you are there to cater to him, whether it’s physically or emotionally.
Davina - lol sorry this made me laugh
Dress to Impress
As a crossdresser, you can express yourself uniquely and excitingly.
Use this to your advantage and dress as your prince charming finds attractive.
For instance, if he enjoys a more feminine look, wear lingerie or a dress that flatters your figure.
Not only will it turn him on, but it will also show him that you’re trying to please him.
Davina - Please come on all the writer has to write here is what we know women can do / wear for us heterosexual men who crossdress its not secret a man into crossdressers would be turned on but a crossdresser or a woman in lingerie etc.
Be Open-minded and Willing to Experiment
Embrace your partner’s desires, even if they differ from your own.
Be open and willing to try new things with your partner, whether exploring their fetishes or experimenting with new sexual experiences.
If he likes foreplay before the action and has a thing with breast play, then you should put on a breast form and be willing to indulge his desires by incorporating foreplay into your sexual encounters.
Davina - Like you would as a man with a woman .. everyone loves foreplay this is hardly advice
Show your Nurturing Side
Men often appreciate a caring and nurturing partner.
Use your feminine side to show your partner a new side of yourself, whether by cooking him a nice meal or simply being a good listener.
For example, offer to cook your partner a romantic dinner or give him a relaxing massage after a long day at work.
It will make him feel loved and appreciated.
Davina - Wives reading this ignore the crossdressing part and imagine its written as advice for you to wooo us men.. Lingerie yes please, a bit of kink why not and cook us a meal yum yes please.
Focus on Pleasure for Both Partners
Always remember that sexual pleasure should be mutual.
Focus on pleasuring your partner, and be open to their feedback and suggestions to create a strong and fulfilling sexual connection.
If he enjoys oral sex, take the time to explore what techniques and positions he finds most pleasurable.
It will make for an explosive and unforgettable experience.
Davina - Wives definitely read up on all the above lol
5 Tips to Satisfy Female Partner
Davina - right here we go is tip one buy your wife 2 x bottles of wine?
If your wife or girlfriend accepts your crossdressing nature graciously, then being a good partner, you should use your feminine side to strengthen your relationship.
Davina - Esme says Davina is nicer than male me
Maybe they need to have a sisterly bond with you.
Davina - I’m her husband ok i may look like a woman but is the writer saying my wife should see me as sisterly when dressed…best friend i can see but sister ..nahh
Here are some tips for using your feminine side as a crossdresser and creating a healthy, wholesome relationship.
Embrace your Femininity
Embrace your inner nurturing girly nature and show your partner how much you care by engaging in activities that align with your feminine energy.
For example, you can plan a spa day at home, complete with facials, manicures, and pedicures.
If your girl is stressed, surprise her with a relaxing bubble bath with scented candles, rose petals, and soothing music.
Davina - wives this sound good?
Remember, as a crossdresser, you have a unique perspective on what it means to embrace your feminine side.
Use this to your advantage and show your partner all the love and support she deserves, regardless of traditional gender roles.
You can create a fulfilling and loving relationship built on mutual trust.
Engage in Sisterly Bonding Activities
Davina - sisterly again..
Remember to have fun and be playful while engaging in sisterly activities. Share your beauty tips and fashion advice, discuss your crushes and dream dates, and maybe even plan a girls’ night together.
Davina a girls night in playing with makeup and looks is fun but crushes? Mine are Holly Willoghby and Megan Fox.. Davina is a lesbian.
Additionally, carve out some one-on-one time to focus on your relationship. And don’t forget to show your partner your appreciation through small gestures like leaving little love notes or buying her flowers.
Remember, communication is key to a successful relationship, so keep those girl talks coming!
Talk about your dreams and goals, fears and insecurities, and anything else on your mind.
Your emotional bond as a partner will only grow stronger with each conversation.
Explore your Partner’s Desires
As a sensual and open-minded crossdresser, you should create a safe and loving space for your partner to share her fantasies.
Invite her to let go of inhibitions and express her desires freely, knowing you are there to embrace and support her in every way possible.
Davina - Us blokes have fantasies and we dont mind expressing them or discussing them .. do women have fantasies and do they talk about them?
Why not add some spice to your love life with some playful roleplay?
With your partner taking the lead and embracing her dominant side, you can let your feminine energy shine and explore new dynamics that will deepen your bond like never before.
Davina - Esme is definitely more dominant when I’m Davina and shes had a drink and i dont mind that.
So let your creativity flow, and enjoy the thrilling and intimate connection of exploring each other’s desires.
Be sensitive and caring
Many women appreciate a sensitive and caring lover, and crossdressing is a great way to express that side of yourself.
Use your feminine energy to show your partner how much you care, whether by giving her a massage or simply listening to her thoughts and feelings.
Make sure you appreciate her for all that she does for you.
Davina - and how much you appreciate her accepting this sode to you
This can be as simple as thanking her for a nice dinner or surprising her with a thoughtful gift.
Showing your gratitude will help strengthen your emotional connection and make your partner feel valued.
Celebrate your relationship:
In any relationship, trust is key!
Communicate openly and establish boundaries to ensure you both feel safe and respected.
Celebrate your unique bond with romantic gestures and quality time together.
But above all, be there for each other through the highs and lows of life. Listen, support, and celebrate your partner; your relationship will flourish emotionally and sexually.
Remember, being a true partner and friend is the foundation of any thriving relationship!
Davina - One thing gets in the way of all this which is all good stuff.. And that is being parents and the time we give to our kids at the expense of ourselves.
Summary
In conclusion, embracing your femininity and exploring new sexual dynamics with your partner can deepen your emotional connection and bring you immense pleasure and satisfaction.
Remember to communicate openly, establish boundaries, and prioritize your partner’s needs and desires.
Doing so can build a strong and fulfilling relationship that celebrates your unique bond as sisters and lovers.
You can always take suggestions from both parts of the blog, whether you’re with a man or a woman.
Just keep in the fundamental behavior patterns of their gender identity.
So go forth, my dear ones, and enjoy the journey of self-discovery and sexual exploration with love and acceptance.
Davina - Nothing revolutionary in this article which could easily be read as advice for non-crossdressing couples.