Hi, this seems like a nice place to share all those weird and wonderful thoughts and urges that we have in common.

I’m 35 years married but wife has only been aware for the last two years. She sort of found out by accident but I was ready to spill the beans. It’s been a massive relief although it’s been a tricky couple of years. We sort of have an agreement now where she will go out for the day and leave me to it, but only if I’m really desperate!

To be honest, I only get to that stage about two or three times a year. I could happily dress every week given the choice, but if I distract myself with other hobbies and just get on with family life, I cope fine. It probably helps that I’m no longer holding on to this dark secret and things are out in the open; big weight off the shoulders.

Katie x