Chatting in TV Chix and a woman in there for want of a better wold using the modern term Cis-woman mentioned she didn't feel Trans people should use the ladies toilets.
On the face of the initial message ok lets find out why..
Her reply was she didn't feel safe.
Being a chatroom with 95% trans people it escalated.
She said she didn't think a Crossdresser out in public or even someone who had transitioned should use the ladies toilets.
Again the reason she didn't feel safe.
My take on this is someone who has transitioned is a woman and should use the ladies toilets.
Someone who is out in muggle public as a woman eg Me and Esme out in London would use the Ladies toilet and the aim would be to "go to the toilet" not attack a woman as a man dressed as a woman.
In fact I'd be worried more than anything
I'd cause offence to a woman being a man dressed as a woman in the ladies loo
I'd be worried i'd be read as a man dressed as a woman
I just need the loo and I wouldn't necessarily feel safe using the mens toilets dressed as a woman
I just want to use the loo, wash my hands, check my makeup and get the hell out of there.
What's everyones thoughts on this?
Me and Esme discussed what we'd do when out in public and the plan was to go to the loo together (as women tend to do) and she's assure everything was ok.
Use the loo you are comfortable using Is what I say.
When I first went out with Vikki I avoided going to the loo as it all felt very strange!
Now I really couldn’t give a damn all I say is just don’t pee on the seat or floor😉
Both myself and Chelle do the same try to go together. I’ve had this conversation with a couple of CIS-women before one was totally why not go to the ladies you would have more trouble going in the gents. But the other one was OMG you should never go in ladies it’s are safe place and had not spoken to me since