"But when they desire to clothe themselves the Valar take upon them forms some as of male and some as of female; for that difference of temper they had even from their beginning, and it is but bodied forth in the choice of each, not made by the choice, even as with us male and female may be shown by the raiment but is not made thereby" So Tolkiens Valar could decide if they wanted to present male or female.. this feeds on from the last post would you dress more if you could.. If you were one of the Valar those with angelic powers or "gods" subordinate to the one God. Would you enjoy being able to change between male and female completely? The Valar are also said to be beautiful more beautiful then the Elves.

Hi, I have a wife who was initially very helpful with my little hobby. We used to shop together for clothes and even used to come along to some of the events I attended. She has known for almost 25 years and I first told her not long after we married. However, she became wary of some of the characters I used to circle with and decided the whole thing was decidedly strange and effectly prevented me from being Liz. I went for over 15 years without dressing to save our marrage until it all got a bit too much and I decided to start dressing again. She does know and has sort of accepted things are not going to change. She’s probably past caring now with are both in our 50’s! We do speak of my friends and the places I go, but she is very uneasy about it. I had some lovely shots done at a makeover session a few months back and I tried to show her the pictures (there are two of them on my profile). I had a very bad reaction and was told to never send them to her and to ‘respect her wishes’.. I would love her to see what Liz looks like and that I am not just some pervert in women’s underwear furiosuly mastubating! I always try to dress respectfully and as a real woman of my age might. Perhaps I should just leave it as is, but if she’d only look and see what I am really all about she might have a better undertanding. Love Liz xx

How many if you had the option to present fem more and openly would get up every morning and choose to present female?