So quick chat in TV chix just talking about the lovely Easter weather and who's lucky enough to be dressed over easter and who can't because of the kids or the wife etc..
A guy who I wont name private messages me
"Alpha male, straight, married, seeking submissive smooth girl, ideally for regular long term, ex army, Dom, very muscular , whatsapp me for my pics, we take it dark there , answer respectfully" then gave his phone number.
I'm interested in wives views on this ..
My reply was "Also Alpha male, straight and married"
His reply to that was "Will you meet me?"
my reply "For what?"
His reply "Anything you want"
My reply "Do you fancy kicking a football about"
His reply was "We have a name for people like you where I'm from in Newcastle"
"What's that?"
He said "Gobshite I've been polite to you You've been rude to me"
Have I been rude or has he presumed I'm up for a bit of slap and tickle with some straight married alpha male ex army guy whos description of himself is a massive contradiction.
So I told him he shouldn't presume t girls are on tvchix to meet "married men" or "any men" and his description contradicts itself.
Lots of admirers class themselves as straight yet want to have sex acts performed on them by a t-girl.. no luv it makes you bisexual if you're into that and your poor wife what would she think if she knew!!
Needless to say he ran away and probably rated my profile pic a 1 out of 10.
I get this sort of approach all the time in tvchix ... I like chatting there but every now and then you get that sort of nonsense from a desperate saddo.
Davina
Curse of the modern world I'd call it. You could be living next door to them and never know. It is so easy these days to just click a few buttons and tap out a message. If the recipient rejects the advance, delete and move on. With a site like TV Chix with 1000s of members there must be plenty of profiles to search through whether your profile indicates no admirers or not. I suppose having a decent picture on your profile will increase your chances of unwanted contact which is the double edged sort of wanting a decent picture on your profile as a form of self promotion, acceptance and inclusion. If I could do my own makeup and hair I'd definitely have a better pic and gallery images and not hide my face (which I do only because I can't do my own makeup). The admirer has to have something to admire. How do those without a profile pic or gallery images fair? I do have a TV Chix account and have ventured, tentatively, into the chat on a couple of occasions but the general chat was always sparsely populated and I've left fairly rapidly. Maybe I should stick around a bit. I'm definite not up for meets of a sexual nature but I could be persuaded to meet up on neutral ground, en femme (or as much as I could be), just for a social get together. There was a group in my local area that met monthly in a local hotel. I think that group has now folded but given the opportunity, I could see myself going for the social aspect, the tacit acceptance and to gain confidence as well as picking up ant tips and tricks so to speak (hair, makeup, local shops that were accepting etc). I've only ever dressed fully in the presence of another person at several dressing services I've previously visited. Scary the first time, and who wouldn't be, but can't wait for the next time after that. I also have a very understanding seamstress I use occasionally to alter my clothing purchases. Her shop is only small and I am often asked to dress so she can see exactly what needs to be altered. Very disconcerting the first time I was standing in her shop in my lingerie, boobs and a dress discussing alterations to have other customers enter. Now I'm not fussed 😁. It's these little confidence boosts that help and meeting others like me could be another step on the journey to self acceptance with who I am.
I’ll have you know I am in the general chat room. There are dedicated rooms for meets and it specifically indicates that it is for meets. Shame a lot of people can’t read and think anything goes in every room.
Yes it does wind me up when it states when you enter the room that it is not for sex talk or meets.
It is not unusual for anyone to state they are straight when in reality they are as Davina has said at least bi sexual. I would have been the same as you Davina and queried the description. So glad I have admirers blocked on chat I find they are creepy and rude.
In his slight defence you were on a site that claims to be all about meet ups. I have my doubts that most on there are just fantasists but the room titles are all about meet-ups.