We may have had some fun last night in this sort of department and i may have told Esme I'd let her peg me if she wanted as i was that horny .. She'll kill me typing this but there it is lol.

Love honey also have their beginners pegging kit on sale

thanks for reply hannah, and nice to meet you.

i guess my original question really refers to being blunt

"if i raise it will my wife think immediatley im gay/bi?"

and if its a gamble i really want to take.

Hi a long time since I've looked in on you lovely t girls and fellow wives.

I'm Hannah one of the original wives here from back in the day when was it Davina 2017??? Gosh

I accepted my husbands crossdressing and later his bisexuality and discovered I was bisexual also and I regret leaving here, more as I felt a little embarrassed that I was exploring the more sexual side with my husband crossdressing and commenting here and other wives weren't.

I think i was seeking validation that I'd let the kinky sexual side take over where his crossdressing led us both.

I decided today to look at the site again and saw this post and thought is someone after my job as the sites sex expert and ok here goes.

Yes I peg my husband when he's dressed as a woman.

I don't peg him as a man.

That may seem strange as reading the article Davina posted it speaks of hetero couples pegging etc.

So it started with me fingering him sorry if this is too much for the forum and progressed to me using a sex toy on him then one day I said to him after many "fk me's" were uttered as I was using a vibrator on him I asked if he'd like me to do that to him with a strap on and he nervously said yes.

So I got our first one at our local Anne Summers with recommended water based lube and set out on our bed lingerie, stockings heels nice dress etc he came home I told him to dress I did his makeup and I put a blindfold on him and went to fetch the strap on putting it on I was going to type tell me if this is too much but no one can respond till I send it so onwards and upwards literally blindfolded I got him to stand took his knickers down gave him a few spanks and then lubed him up he was expecting the toy it didn't take him long to realise i was fk-ing him with a strap on and he loved it I loved it the power trip of it all and we now do it regularly, when he's dressed and hes even used one on me where he's spent (cum too soon) so has its advantages for both of us.

Toy play first may be the way to go if any wives are thinking of doing this and lots of lube and start small and slow.

There I've come back and embarrassed myself already OMG

Is this what you were wondering to the original poster.

Hannah RG (Wife)

www.marieclaire.co.uk

Plus, why it can transform relationships and orgasms for all genders.

Seems its on the rise amongst heterosexual couples...

Wow this is a topical post..

My first question is to God.. "Why did you put an erogenous zone up our asses?"

I've chatted to lots of wives via this Forum and TV Chix and 2 or 3 who I won't name have told me they enjoy sex with their husbands crossdressed and progressed it to pegging.

I was chatting to a wife on TV chix last week who asked if Esme pegs me and I said no and she said you don't know what you're missing and Esme doesn't k ow what she's missing the power trip, the control and trust and how erotic it is to peg your husband having him submit.

Interested to see where this topic leads.. I agree it's not gay. How can it be if a strap on is attached to your wife..

Myself and Esme have had sex a few times when I've been dressed but she'd had a few glasses of wine and she said to me once "Don't ever ask me to do you with a strap on"

That came out of the blue I'd never asked her or hinted about it so no idea where that came from.. if she suggested it would inlet her?

Who knows?

I did think about not answering this question but now I've changed my mind.

I consider myself completely heterosexual and do have regular searches of porn sites as I love women with big natural boobs wearing stockings. Nothing wrong with that. I've also searched for crossdresser porn to see what was out there, why not as they say, but I have been rather disappointed with what I've found. Pegging seems to be the de facto interaction in 99.9% of CD porn. Often it's one or more CDs with a male and all get fucked/pegged. There are some vids of the wife pegging her CD husband while dressed in lingerie and pretty much zero vids of CDs (in lingerie) fucking their wives,(which is probably what I was hoping to find). It seems to me that most vids of CDs, and a lot of stories, result in the CD being pegged. Yeah it is not gay porn as such but why does it all have to be that way with CDs? Is that what the market wants or is that how the market 'perceives' CDs? I'm not too sure!

Have I been aroused when watching some CD porn. Yes, occasionally.

Have I ever jacked off to any. No.

Have I thought about being pegged. Yes.

Given the opportunity, would I let it happen. I honestly don't know.

particularly intersted to hear what wives and partners views/thoughts are

no not at all. as i say i imagine it will ignite the whole is he gay thought process......

I think most of us at some stage will have some fantasy around our dressing. Not sure if I'd ever convince the wife to do anything whilst dressed as Ally as just not for her.

Have you broached the subject with your wife?