Hi
After Hannah burst back on the scene I thought it would be worth exploring the sex and sexuality of crossdressers.
The number one misconception of wives / partners is that we dress to attract men and are, therefore, gay. I think that this view is over simplistic and ignores a whole lot of other factors that come into play. Most t girls dress for their own benefit and not that of anyone else.
Gender and sexuality are not intrinsically linked. There are gay, straight and bisexual crossdressers just as there are in any other group. I do, however, believe that increasing gender options does challenge the binary options of gay v straight. A t girl can be found attractive by straight men (https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/nov/26/boyfriend-looking-up-men-wearing-lingerie-online-is-he-gay). It is not necessarily what is in her knickers that is attractive but the highly feminine way in which she presents. This has bought into play new terms such as Gynesexual (https://www.bolde.com/gynesexual-what-how-tell/) which is the attraction to women and femininity.
I also believe that the majority of the population is not 100% straight or gay but somewhere in between (despite what they say). This is more prevalent amongst younger people who have less stigma attached to being gay, bi or whatever (https://yougov.co.uk/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2015/08/16/half-young-not-heterosexual). I do believe that attraction plays an important part in our lives and we should not limit ourselves to just to fit one held prejudice.
So Hannah and her t wife are happily exploring their sexual attraction and sexuality without the confines of the usual gender stereotypes. As they are both consenting adults, then no judgements should be made, and good luck to them. Maybe if we could all cast off our inhibitions in the same way then we'd be a lot happier than having to conform to societies rules.
We are all individual and made up of a cocktail of sexuality, gender identity, gender expression and should be treated as such. We should not judge others who don't conform with societies norms and maybe we'd all be happier if we did not have these pressures on us. If gender didn't exist and we just found people attractive how ever they identified we'd all get on a lot betters.
Try the following:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androphilia_and_gynephilia
Happy New Year.
Katie x
I am going to say I'm not het up on my sexuality, I'd freely discuss this with anyone! But not on here, it's just not the place for it, Davina has requested a few times that we don't get to deep into this subject, if anyone wants to ask me about it your quite welcome to contact me on Skype.
What I will say is that honestly I have no attraction to men, and as far as other t-girls go I'd say it's admiration for their work but nothing else, so as I've said before being able to attract a cis bisexual woman as Catriona is my biggest turn on! And that's the lesbian in me.