One of the first questions we're asked on confession is 'Are you gay?' A better question might be 'Are you bi-sexual?'.

So my question to all those wives is:

If you found out your husband was bi sexual before you married him would you still have married him?

I think that sexuality is on a spectrum. I consider myself a heterosexual man but I don't fancy ALL women but equally I do find some trans women attractive so am I less heterosexual than someone who fancies only women?

I also think that sexuality is sometimes down to situation. The instance of homosexuality is increased in prison because the men are denied heterosexual sex. They are not naturally gay they are situationally gay. Are they still gay or bi sexual if they immediately drop the practice once released?

Equally if a T girl fancies men whilst dressed is he bi sexual by situation or nature?

Just a few thoughts to debate.

Katie