The title made me laugh but better than a title saying fingering or toying your mans Gspot when hes in male or fem mode makes neither of you Bisexual.
So Emma and Rebecca have played with toys on their husbands crossdressed and so have I and i suspect Esme may have although Davina isn't admitting it fully.
Let me get it straight if youre a wife enjoying sex with your husband or bf who's crossdressed and you're getting off on it you are not Bisexual why do i know this because I am bisexual and i don't mean with my husband crossdressed lol
Let me also get this straight men crossdressed if you like your G spot touched fingers or toys or even if you suck off a rubber vibrator between your wifes legs when you are crossdressed you are not bisexual either.
If your wife uses a sex toy on you as in pegging this isnt a bisexual act as it's your wife doing it.
Don't get all squirmish and ashamed about it you know it feels good being played with there and with your wife or GF doesnt mean you're anything other than straight.
This is better here than in the Are Crossdressers Bisexual thread.
Hit like if you like being touched there lol we'll get a feeling for it then anon haha
Hannah (Wife)
Esme said to me once dont ever ask me to do that lol
have you tried a strap on Em? sorry if too rude but empowering very empowering
Oh how erotic she is and her other videos
Yes we've tried this when dressed and in drab with fingers and with a vibrator it's just fun isn't it drives him wild
Good answers Davina anyone else ? Or is the topic too.got to handle.. It started about your g spots.
Had being a Crossdresser given you a different perspective on sex and sexuality?
I think as you grow up you think differently and my slant on being gay or bisexual is each to their own it doesn't really bother me. I don't come across many Bi or Gay people in the Muggle world but I suppose as Davina I've chatted to Gay and Bisexual T girls but I don't think the Gay guys really want anything to do with us T girls and I've found a lot of TGirls develop this Bi side most it seems through some sort of sexual frustration.
Nothing wrong with being Bisexual but If you're married or have a Gf anything you do without your wife or GF
doing with a guy, girl or tgirl is cheating no matter what your sexuality unless you have a very open and understanding relationship.
So no the fact I'm part of the LGBT rainbow hasn't changed my opinion of Bisexuality getting old and not thinking too critically about it changed my opinion.. someone said to me once if its in the dark and someone is sucking something and it feels good does it matter who's doing it.... well yes it does lol if its not your wife or girlfriend!!
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I note you say you were homophobic but not so much now or not at all? It's interesting as does fem You view things differently or does male you think the same or rather because you have to act the alpha male like you commented on work and friends ridiculing crossdressing do you put up a front about the way you act when discussing sexuality.
Hmmm as above I used to be very homophobic probably upbringing as my father is homophobic and maybe overtly fathers tend to be like this as they dont want to have a gay or bisexual son who knows but as above now i don't really care if someone is Gay or Bisexual.
Yes I act alpha but again i don't put on a front discussing sexuality with Esme .. maybe subconciously i do amongst other alpha males some of which may be hiding that they are bisexual lol who knows these days.
Example something on tv two men kiss what do you say to Esme?
What i say to Esme is Ewwww why are two men kissing on TV ... I say Ahhhh if two women are kissing .. not being homophobic but i have zero interest in men its the female form that does it for me,
Compare this to seeing two women kissing? See above seeing two women kissing for me as more ahhh than ewwww .. how do women feel seeing two men snogging? I'll have to ask Esme as for me two women snogging is hot but is seeing two men snogging hot for her?? i doubt it.
Or to a man snogging a t girl as we've now seen tgirls in soaps - I guess this would look like a man kissing a woman
or i f on tv you saw two tgirls kissing (again would look like two women kissing)
how do.you react in front of Esme? Indifferent does not compute no idea what id say seeing a guy kiss a t girl or two t girls snogging.
And how do you really feel behind the alpha male.act? behind the Alpha male is a softer bloke but still a bloke who just happens to enjoy crossdressing for escapism..
Is Bisexuality really that bad? No
Sex is fun right? Yes
Consensual open I mean not behind someone's back.
So does it matter who's getting you off a man or a woman? Yes I dont want to get off with a man.
Not just posing this because as a couple we've both discovered we 're Bisexual remembering I was worried he was Bi. Maybe as you get older your outlook on what sex is and making love compared to lust fueld getting off changes. Ours certainly has. - Possibly
Sex when you date is fun any time any place any where then becomes baby making and now i find when we're in the mood its fun again as we enter another sexual dawn (i hope) where we want to have more sex when we can and the kids arent around.. Sex is sex i know what you mean but we're not swinging or anything like that before you ask Hannah lol
Davina
So Davina and anyone else a question.
Had being a Crossdresser given you a different perspective on sex and sexuality?
I note you say you were homophobic but not so much now or not at all? It's interesting as does fem You view things differently or does male you think the same or rather because you have to act the alpha male like you commented on work and friends ridiculing cr ossdressing d o you out up a front about the way you act when discussing sexuality. Example something on tv two men kiss what do you say to Esme? Compare this t o seeing two women kissing? Or to a man snogging a t girl as we've now seen tgirls in soaps or i f on tv you saw two tgirls kissing how do.you react in front of Esme? And how do you really feel behind the alpha male.act?
Is Bisexuality really that bad? Sex is fun right? Consensual open I mean not behind someone's back. So does it matter who's getting you off a man or a woman?
Not just posing this because as a couple we've both discovered we 're Bisexual remembering I was worried he was Bi. Maybe as you get older your outlook on what sex is and making love compared t lustfueld getting off changes. Ours certainly has.
Hannah (wife)
Interesting perspective on the topic.
Each to their own says the man \t~girl who was probably pretty homophobic at some point in life but now more open minded and who cares about people's sexuality and what they like to get up to its their business after all I dress up as a woman. The 3some question lol and coming out to his Mam lol.
This is pretty good
Hannah loves the male prostate lol
Agreed... but still we can't help feeling weird about being touched prodded or whatever there its years of conditioning withing the confines of the neanderthals we bother with and the alpha males we aspire to be for whatever reason.. result its gay .. but its not.
They are squeamish I think it's because of where it is and the association with being gay.
Forget that if you're alone or with your wife or g girlfriend it's not gay
we are squeemish about where it is why the hell is it up our bum lol
i think lack of response to my post proves you guys are squeamish about your gspots haha
Don t be squeamish we're not about our g spot enjoy it lol
Hannah (wife)
Lol Hannah i think you're right better here added by a wife of a Crossdresser than confusingly discussed in the Bisexual T girls? Thread.
We are so squeamish about our G Spot... What a place to put it though!!
Davina