Chatting to other t-girls in TV Chix who need somewhere for their wives to chat to others and gain advice I don't think TV Chix is the place.

There's the SO forum there i suppose but it's the feel of TV Chix which could be such a safe haven for T girls and wives and is to a certain extent depending on how thick your skin is but its also a place to organise meets, cyber sex and admirers and as it says on its main page "the number one place for Tgirl contacts and dating" which is a little off putting.

I remember chatting years ago to a woman on TV Chix who seemed really nice, complimentary and accepting and thought I'd get my wife Esme to chat to her.. Leaving my wife alone at the laptop I saw in her face it wasn't going as I expected as the woman in question basically told my wife to like it or lump it and if she didn't like me crossdressing to pack her bags and leave.. definitely not what i was expecting her to say and not the aim of asking Esme to chat to her.

So here the "Why do men crossdress forum" Whats it about and what's it for?

I blogged about my crossdressing, Esmes acceptance and us growing through the stages of acceptance to where I am now and the blog grew and grew and hit top 20 in the world and is still there now despite me not adding to it in over 4 years but i get lots of emails about it and people telling me they enjoyed my blog and i should write a book from it etc .. It got too big but my rambings which Esme read allowed us to move on, allowed me to come to some conclusions about why i dress and I hope did the same for Esme.

Its my escapism from alpha male stressful life, helps me unwind, i find it fun to do and relaxing and somehow Esme says i'm nicer when I'm dressed when I'm "Davina" just a name and apparent persona.

Solved my problems racking my brains why i crossdress and also found acceptance with Esme to the point we've been out in public as "girls" so decided I needed to help others try to come to terms with their crossdressing, although we all have different reasons why but a lot of similarities.. and onto my pie chart of why 25% escapism from my Alpha male persona, 20% fun, 10% makes me feel sexy, 10% wearing things i like women to wear, 25% helps me relax and unwind and 10% i like how it makes me feel.. something like that the percentages change and are different for everyone and some people add other things to the pie chart.

Back to the point. The Forum is set up by me but belongs to you the members.

It is Open and I hope honest, there's not private corners although nothing to stop anyone swapping emails or emailling me outside the Forum as some do but in the main it's transparent.

Our members range from T girls and Wives and Girlfriends and maybe there's some admirers on here but they seem to get bored and leave once they realise this isn't a meet Forum or overly sexualisted.

We have some regular T girls who have been here for years dating back to my Blog where i opened up comments on it and some wives who have been here as long. I count these people as joint founders of this Forum and they've lent their openness and honesty of how they found out, confessed, adapted and coped with this phenomenon to different degrees.

So If you're a t girl wanting to come out to your wife there are many topics you can find in here or start a new thread and ask for advice.. If you're a wife or GF curious or have been told or found out hes a crossdresser again plenty of threads here (hundreds in fact) with ready made chatter or as above ask the question and advice and perspective will be given.

Its in no way a site which aims to manipulate wives and girlfriends to accept but I have invited tgirls and accepting wives here to lend their secrets of success.

There's also the kubler-ross curve which shows a path that most take to acceptance which can be varied from him dressing when you're not there to going out together or a night in dressed as you'll find if you read the forum posts.

Overall I hope if you're reading this and start a thread you'll find it non judgemental, honest and helpful and no pressure and i hope fun.

I wouldn't run it and have my wife here as a member if i wasn't willing to make it as transparent as it is.

So Welcome to the Forum say hi in the new Member post and lets explore together why it is men Crossdress.

Davina