Awww hope the chatter starts up again now so you see new people have joined

We've had a few more join recently (2 yesterday) hope to hear from them soon.

I dont think we're there for everyone yet we may even get your and Emmas hubbys be allowed to join if you'll let them tho i suspect some comments under your names are theirs??

plenty more to discuss in here but guess some t girls have seen out this forums usefullness to them and wish Sindy would come back.

Lots of members not.many contributors Davina im.bored and so reading back.. Hey you lot get back on here

Hannah (wife)

Yay glad to have you

HAHA,as Arnie says "I'll be back"!! :-)

A few new girls Emma and was picking up nicely until our lil incident put a few off but I hope they'll return

Judging by lack of posts from the majority maybe wev e hit the wall and everyone here is content?

Hi Sindy. I thought I could hear crickets chirping too! lol Sorry I've not been here lately.

Great and perfectly understandable that you've decided to accept you will never like this element of him and yep it's up to him whether he can live with you feeling this way and i bet he will having acceptance and a level where you understand where you are is a bit of clousre.

I hope you dont move on and part in the future due to crossdressing that would be sad for all the good traits you list about him.

More posts from you too please Sindy

Davina

Hi Davina. I thought I could hear crickets chirping! lol

And I guess you could say things are kind of settled for now. But it's not settled where my husband would like, as I've decided to accept I will never like this element of him and now it's up to him whether he can live with me feeling this way. I continue to refuse any involvement as it still puts me off seeing my husband all dressed up, so I don't. I still think he's weak in this area of his life and has allowed his needs to lead him and our relationship down a path of unhappiness. But, part of growth etc, is also acknowledging that these are all his life choices and all I can control are mine. That's it. He's a good father and nice person, so for now, here we are. I think possibly the future will be very different and we'll both move on eventually.

Funny, but I don't see myself moving onto to another man though. Lord, I am done with relationships. lol. No, I can just see a peaceful life without crossdressing in it. I'm not horrified at that thought. I've realised sometimes love can't conquer all, and I've also realised you can love someone but not really like them or their lifestyle, and in the end, I suspect that wins out.

So, we all find our individual points to settle. Glad everyone else is finding the crossdressing less troublesome. I'm sure there are plenty of wives who read here who feel like I do and wish they'd not married into all this, so it's good for us to read of women who are doing well. Even if it's a slim hope that our own feelings might change, hope is all we have.

And more posts please. Crickets are kinda boring. :-D

Oh, and the Irish article was interesting, but the dude is posing on swingers sites so forget the crossdressing, she should just dump his vain, exhibitionist arse!

Hi Jean i'm also interested to see what Davina says that you dont agree with as there are things in the Irish times article i dont agree with.

I was scared when i found out my husband was a tgirl but this blog and forum really helped and we're now doing things together on our nights in and out as girls i never imagined we'd be doing.

Hannah (Wife)

hi Jean

I'm a wife of a T girl

It's good you don't agree with all Davinas posts as a forum would be pretty boring if we all said yep i agree with that. It's good to have some debate.

What are the points you don't agree with?

In terms of are we there yet I'd say you and Esme have cracked it Davina and the insight into how you handled things has helped a lot of people come out to their wives and girlfriends.

We've cracked it too a good balance of husband and wife time and time for him to crossdress which is something we've both found we enjoy.

Emma (Wife)

Hi Davina

Yes things have been quiet here for a while, I have found your Blog and this forum very helpful although I don’t agree with some the posts.

Found this article that may help those who have not come out to their partner.

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/how-do-i-tell-my-girlfriend-about-my-secret-cross-dressing-1.3304028

Jean