This site is really helpful for me. And if my wife ever indicates she wants to know more then I will load this up…I don’t think that will happen, sadly

for me, my contributions tie-in with how important the hobby is to me at any given time. It ebbs and flows - why, not sure. Is it a way of me not letting it be all consuming, definitely part of it, but also how much the family is at home - wife is a teaching assistant so school holidays and them being around is a nullifying impact.

like Davina I have a child who is starting Alevels so not sure how much time in the day I will have…Davina have you figured a solution

So Davina, hopefully even with limited contributions please keep it going😀

I must hold up my hands as guilty for sitting in the side-lines quite often. I do contribute from time to time but sometimes I start a post and then think to myself that what I am saying has very little to add to what has already been said and that they will just elicit a massive 'duh!' from my fellow members! I know... I guess that's why I never pursued a career in politics 😁

Hypocritically, I also find myself thinking like @Chelle (R’s Wife) that there often isn't much activity here. 🤐

I'm just a regular bundle of contradictions!

I promise to commit myself in future to contributing my thoughts, however banal or repetitive they may be!😉

It can be a hard thing for a lot of dressers to come to terms with dressing at first. Due to many CD who for their beginning to dress were sexually excited. Some have taken it further in wanting to be the full woman when dressed. Everyone has different levels to their dressing and what they wear. I knew a dresser who only wore nightdress’s and robes. There are a good many who only wear lingerie. Myself it is dressing fully. I have more skirts and dresses than my wife does. I have more heels also. I was told at one point I needed to look at my Coleen spending as it was more than hers and my male spending put together. My wife realised that my dressing was part of who I am. I just have some rules that must be followed.

This site is very helpful for CD community I love to read others take on things of interest. I love hearing about venture’s out. I made a promise to my wife I would not go out dressed. Before the Covid lockdowns etc. I used to go to TTime at the LGBGT centre in Edinburgh where others can meet. Others being transgender bisexual and everything that trans stands for. I loved to dress have coffee a chat with others who think and are like me. I love to wear my fem clothes and be Coleen chatting to others. As you can tell by the rambling writing is not my strong point.

Back in the day when I set this up it was much busier as you can see from some of the old threads and some I copied over from my bold blog. My wife for example doesn't come here any more (which is disappointing), then we had some original wives Sindy (who's husband discovered she was on here shed kept this to herself they had a bit if a spat on here as he discovered the forum and read all her comments and took them the wrong way and she left the group.. She was more you're "hold on ladies don't let these tgirls run amok" type which was good for the group). We had one wife who was one if the originals and a bit of a racy lady who was afraid of her husbands crossdreasing, then found acceptance then feared he was bisexual, then found out he was bisexual and accepted it and then discovered she was bisexual too.. I chatted a few times on Skype video with her and saw her once in the flesh as she's from nearby but I was in man mode and with the kids so I didn't say hi.. She for a while was our sexpert here lol. I think as shed accepted this sexual side to cross dressing was of the mind others could or should be as open minded wanting to gain some validity for her acceptance of his and her sexuality. Some come here looking for hookups and sex chat.. That's not banned but I think most come here for what this forum is intended to supply "Support" and for what its worth some advice. Rebecca was one of the originals on my blog who found acceptance of her husbands cross dressing, I chatted once on Skype video with Rebecca as Davina. Emma who did what me and Esme took 8-10 years took the bull by the horns and did what we've done in about 6 months and very early on after finding out and reading here wanted to see her hubby dressed and also said if you want to go out come on hop in the car.. She took him to walk around a shopping centre out of hours. We had quite a few video chats when I worked from home as Davina and chatted to her hubby a few times too they made a nice looking pair of women if you're still reading come and say hi. Hannah who used to contribute a lot here also no longer here but we still chat on TV chix. Some are here just reading but no more to offer or have found what they're looking for and feel they no longer need the forum. It's a pity as there have been some wives here who have contributed a lot in the past (including my wife) who have a lot to offer other wives and girlfriends and also lot a of t girls who have found acceptance and some who haven't who also have a lot of experience and advice.. Sorry to other regulars if I've missed you off that summary of the original members back in 2017/18 when I changed my old blog to this forum.. It was so pleasing reading some success stories and mainly around good communication and open minded women. Some choose not to comment here and email me instead.. But it would be good to get more feedback or more queries I agree. I try to think what I can add apart from woe is me I can't get opportunity to dress and no idea how I'll get my fill around the kids movements.. Lots of stuff on the forum for people to just come here and read and maybe that's all some need. Maybe I should promote the post on introducing yourself as a new member? That may spark more chatter..

I think this site is so useful/helpful to others who maybe can’t come out but is useful to contribute too but they can read and ask questions- we can help each other.

This is a secluded site so CD’s Should be able to comment on what they want to say.

I have to agree that it would be lovely to hear from other members on here and hopefully some might come forward with their own topics/questions, etc. Just being devil's advocate though I do appreciate that not all on here have the same freedom to chat/message due to their own circumstances. I'm lucky enough to be making progress with my wife but I'm still along way off presenting myself to the world outside this forum. Fingers crossed to more debate and making friends.