This is a good one from Juliette and something my wife's tried to get her head around.. She married me the man and I've introduced "Davina".
"Davina" for me is just a name not a character or a person .. Just a name to use to refer to and to have as a screen name here.
Who is Davina to her? In the context of discussing going out I said well Davina would have to be your best female friend in the context of I have to pass and we both have to act a part out if i ever went out in public.
A girls night in I'm me crossdressed she doesn't refer to me as Davina as in "Hey Davina do you want a drink?" but sometimes for codes sake may say when we're in a shop "do you want this for Davina?"
Another for the wives to answer how do you think of him as her? still him dressed? or can you detach this and think of him as her as someone else? a friend?
Our time together dressed is limited mainly to a friday or saturday night once or twice per month dont really sit for a cuppa mainly wine lol and a chick flick or trying different looks.
Just checking up on you now as i surprise him laying some things out on the bed as an opportunity tonight just us two and I know he is stressed this week in work so a chance to unwind if he wants to.
I definately label it as a bit of fun and it helps him unwind and escape his macho normal self.
Emma (wife)