We're conditioned aren't we to be men, like sport, act macho, play army or cowboys and Indians, live to to expectations of our fathers who had tonlibe up to the expectations of their fathers.. Listening to a program now as I sort clothes out and tidy the bedroom and they're discussing meditation and how men should come together, midfullness and supporting one another.. The man in us says pah sod that mumbo jumbo mamby pamby sissy stuff we're men we don't need all that. We bottle up thought and emotion and try to be the best at what we do, a good husband or boyfriend or a good father. The stress men put on themselves is ridiculous really and I've driven myself to stress and at times depression and anxiety mainly through pushing myself in work to get things done and to be known as the best in my field of Engineering and stay at the top.. What does it achieve if I go off on the sick with stress as many which work with me have? They're being talked about as weak, taking the piss and the business has brought others in to cover their jobs.. That's the gratitude to working yourself to the bone where your head can't take any more. How many here are like this work hard, maintain the alpha male persona.. That's what is is isn't it a persona.. Can't be seen to cry unless your team wins the Premier league.. Ahem.. Can't be caught acting anything other than macho in front of friends and peers.. Men ate setting themselves up for strokes and heart attacks. I think most here have found the escapism of Cross dressing helps..
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Looks like youre obstacle (the children) may be off longer into January with tier 4.
I'd want assurance they're safe and we'd be safe sending them back to school.
So Davina is on hold as I'm sure many other t-girls have struggled to dress over 2020 even though some working from home? wives also home? debating if to come out as tgirls?
A wife being told is hard i suppose telling Children is as big an obstacle and risk.
Emma (Wife)
Hi Rachel, I've not felt its wrong for a long time and thats why I asked the question Why do men crossdress? why do i crossdress .. i enjoy it it is escapism and a stress relief for me and i like how i look and feel for those few hours so the question i used to fret over what does Esme really think? why do i do this.. whats wrong with me went out he window years ago nothing wrong with me and nothing wrong with crossdressing for fun and escapism so sod it.
My obstacle now is the kids getting older and wiser and video calls in work.
If my oldest ventures back to work friday sod it im dressing 0900-1300 and sod the world i've not dressed for so long and opportunities in 2020 are dissapearing so sod it im dressing Friday
If you get that stressed that you forgo dressing when you have opportunity but then regret not dressing later and you know dressing would have helped you're a ticking time bomb for stress and its terrible for your health it will affect your blood pressure and your heart so make sure you work your paid hours and make sure you dress when you can and reap the benefits of Davina time. I'm sure Esme will say the same thing family first work second and tell work you've need more time to finish things don't work into the night our kids grown up and left and we miss that we should have spent more time with them when younger and living at home.
That goes for all of you who dress for the stress relief not just Davina!
Hannah (Wife)
Does anyone else get stress relief ? Dressing up and it dissipates. Does enyone else go beyond dressing helping? Or rather you have opportunity but put it off to sort work out but gain more stress in doing this .. So you go beyond cross dressing helping although you know it would if you did it.. How dangerous is this for our mental health? Puting off something you know will help with stress relief.. Men are so dumb.
Correct says he watching football shouting at the telly. Come on Liverpool !!
it's because men are stupid macho idiots Davina
It is stupid how we bunch to stress inside and can't talk about it.
i wonder if more men let them selves try crossdressing would more chill like you lot?
Women arent much different working to the bone and stressing ourselves out all we want is some help around the house mainly and i find wine helps.
Men shouldnt bunch up their emotions its silly
Double agreement
Hell yes 😘
Hell yes 😘