Hi my names Davina and I haven't crossdressed since the start of November.
Sounds like some AA meeting doesn't it.
Going cold turkey for a variety of reasons, work, Esme being ill, Christmas and kids off school and needing to look a bit rough and tough with stubble is my excuse this week.
Balancing the need for a more manly stubble desperate Dan look with the desperate need to unwind crossdressed.
Working from home too so ideal opportunity but not really quality escapism when you dress work then have to undress to pick kids up from school and the day goes so fast too working away..
Maybe need a girls night in time to relax and dress without working and take time with makeup etc.. but when?
2019 whizzing by already.
Maybe tomorrow or Wednesday as I can work from home but so busy loads to do work wise.
Come on Davina get your first of 2019 under your belt
Hannah (wife)
You and your cold turkey again ask Esme for a night in or out then in or venture out as girls?
Find time to unwind or you'll be stressed again and that's no good for you.
Emma (wife)
I could dress Friday too, I could have dressed tues, wed, and thurs also but the need to look manly this week overuled my urge to crossdress. Daughters Birthday disco Friday night and I need to look the mean looking father so the teenagers know if they mess about that my daughters mean looking father will sling them out.
It does sound like things have become more involved for you wanting to pass as a woman as much as possible is a given for me too as it’s part of the “fun” for me trying to look convincing.
Sindy if she we’re back would be tutting at the “Fun” - Did you see the video cartoon post I put around a guys saying women have it easier showing makeup on get it right then have to take it all off etc and start again the next day … portrayed as a pain but I think its fun lol I like doing makeup… but would I like it if I had to do it every day or would it be mundane? Do I find it fun as I only do it every now and then and its a novelty to look different.
I have fake silicone boobs which is a step up from rice in ankle tights lol. That did amuse Esme.. the rice not the silicone ones those she has given them a squeeze.
I’ve seen the breast plates and myself and Katie briefly discussed them the other day.. great for photos but you need to assure you hide that join between you and your neck with a choker and I know Katie has discussed hip and bum pads before.. I’ve looked into padded knickers for when I went out in London with Esme but didn’t buy any in the end but may do as she’s said we can do it again… would it enhance my look I wonder hmmmm.
Taking it all off and packing it away is spot on and temporary as I say when I work away I sometimes pack Davina in a bag...
It’s definitely a challenge and this has become a hobby for me to also look as good as i can be and as Esme puts it to look classy not trashy and again like you not for anyone else but just for my own satisfaction.
Just need to make myself an opportunity to dress soon before I forget how to do my makeup lol.
Will check Amazon later for padded knickers lol hips and bum
For me this coming Friday will be the fist time I will have had to dress, things have now become more involved for me, I think it's now become a hobby type thing for me to look as much like a woman as possible, I've just recently bought a breast plate with c cup boobs and hip pads, mainly to be able to give me a woman's curve.
The dresses i have just don't look right as they are cut for a woman obviously so I need to fill the hip area and the chest area to give cleavage and fill out the dress properly, I don't want anything permanent so they can just be taken off and packed away.
It's now become a challenge for me to look as good as i can be, not better than anyone else but just for my own satisfaction.
And I think that's as far as I'd like to go in how far as transitioning goes.
Cat xx