It seems to me that women would have no problem with their husbands’ crossdressing if they didn’t know they did it! Which begs the question, why do so many men want to ‘out’ themselves to their wives? My crossdressing has been a secret for over 50 years, and for 36 years kept from my wife. I have no plans to fess up. So why do others? For me: I was born into a Catholic family. We Catholics of the 50s n 60s grew up with the explicit knowledge, that if you can enjoy it, it’s probably a sin! Masturbation, homosexuality, sex out of marriage- you get the idea. So, I had social norms with good old guilt for good measure. Hence, I have to ask: why do you boys want your wives to know? For me, it’s private to me. Were my wife to find out, and were we to get past the secret, I would have no expectation of girly nights in with a chick-flick. We have couples nights in with a chick flick already- she’s not invited into Sylvia’s world, just as I’m not into her girlfriends world. I would respond to any curiosity; and would welcome not sneaking about, but the rest holds good. But it’s clear that this won’t do for many men, and I wonder why.