Just asked him and he said wow so i guess he sees what most men see a sexualised woman posing sexily.

Men are so easily turned on and ladies wives and girlfriends easy to tease and control with something sexy.

I only have to hint my black tights are actually stockings and he will be my lapdog eager to find out if they're stockings or not and thats where we can say down boy no touching.

We know how visual men are and how much lingerie turns them on and red lips and high heels so why not use it every now and then.

Tidy up the house and i'll put my heels on for you lol although sometimes its them who want to wear the heels whilst they tidy up the house lol

Emma (Wife)

But you did it Hannah ... Esme was in heeled boots today and skinny jeans .. i was watching her and got quite turned on lol and text her so lol

Wow I knew you'd made me chief of sexuality but of lingerie also what an honour. My feet are aching and calf's first time in heels since Feb outdoors anyway.

Hannah(wife)

Congratulations Hannah on your promotion. I will be asking your advice on all aspects 😉😉

Hannah you are now promoted to head of sexuality and lingerie director for tgirls everywhere.

I think she looks sexy in both pics and I get that men love us women in sexy lingerie.

We go through this stage of nesting and settling down and comfort and i can see why some men feel we neglect them when we hit this stage.

I will wear matching sexy lingerie stockings and heels for him so its not part of why he dresses because i wont wear things for him.

Ladies trust me when i tell you keep them keen have some sexy lingerie and use it for when you fancy some fun in the bedroom or anywhere else and also as I think Davina has hinted if i get her drift to tease and deny them touching you, turn them on and tease and then reward with letting him have you dare i say it dom him with your lingerie

Hannah (wife)

Love that you find it a treat him wearing lingerie in bed wish Esme thought that as even in the dark feeling a pair of stockings on me turns her off.. What a waste of what it does for me lol. We do like you the way you are but men are very visual and is it asking too much for a wife once in a while to dress in a way that really turns her husband on.. As I've said for fun or merely to tease us.. Drove me wild once Esme in sexy lingerie stockings and heels not letting me near her .. I don't get it myself. Why women won't do something which seems so simple to men.. Something that may seem an enhancement to you but turns us on all the more.

I agree with Esme you should like us the way we are and shouldn’t need to have enhancements.

My husband never ever said anything about lingerie to me at all until this year so I was quite surprised to find he wished I wore something a little prettier. So if we don’t know.........

On occasion my husband does wear sexy lingerie to bed now and I view that as a treat for me rather than for him. How times change!

I think I remain a project in process.

Who are more weird men or women? I think we are all weird in our own way x

I get that but we also adore sexy shape wear if our wives are a little uncomfortable and body conscious For me the feel of tights or stockings and lingerie on my wife is a turn on as is the surprise of her undressing or me undressing her to find sexy lingerie underneath. Part of the reason I dress as i've said is Emsme unfortunately for me doesn't see the point in lingerie.. I've had the "I shouldn't have to wear it you should like me as I am".. Yes very good and all that but I love Lingerie and stoxking s and heels on a woman .. Is it asking too much to oblige that for a husband? As it sucks that a wife won't wear sexy lingerie etc for some fun and also that you won't let us wear it either in bed lol I don't think women realise the psychological effect on a man when a women wears lingerie for sex or just to tease a man and we are doubly pshycologically attacked when our wivea won't dress up in this gear for us for that titillation and tease.. We also don't get how you don't feel sexy in sexy lingerie and heels etc.. As it turns us on wearing it maybe as taboo for us to wear it? But women aren't turned on or don't feel special in sexy matching black lingerie stockings and heels.. Who's weird men or women? Lol

I think also most men keep this to themselves as a fantasy and therefore if that fantasy is not shared then the woman will not oblige.

Personally I am very concious of my body shape and couldn’t think of anything worse than flaunting it like either picture. If I dont feel good how can I project a sexy image for my husband?

i have ‘upped my game’ on the lingerie front as I know this is a big thing for my husband but need to feel comfortable too. So weekends I suffer and in the week I revert back to my norma. Does he appreciate it? I think so or should I say he better 😂