I think that there maybe a dissonance it what crossdresser fear most about their wife / partner finding out that they are a crossdresser and what our wives and partners actually fear.
I know that the thing that most worried me was that I would somehow be diminished in my wife eyes. That should would somehow as see me a lesser person than the one she married. She married a man and although my crossdressing is part of who I am I'd hate to think that she lost a little love for me because of it. That she could somehow no longer love the whole of me but only part.
What are other peoples fears?
Katie x
@Davina jokingly said to her recently she was Wonder Woman, so I must be Superman, she said no, he wears his knickers outside his tights 😀