its a big issue that's not really that big as far as we're concerned but its made a big deal. Tgirls and wives and girlfriends chip in here.. A message from another tgirl in TVChix led us to a quick debate on why it is some women accept cross dressing and some flip out and pack their bags or the cross dressers bags. Why is it Taboo is a good question? Why do we find it so hard to talk about? Why do wives find it hard to talk about? Who made it Taboo? Is it the society norm? The society idea of what cross dressers are? Is this changing? Why do women feel so threatened by us dressing as women? Why is it thought deceitful that most cross dressers either caught out or confess we cross dress after marriage? Why is it a trip to the divorce courts for some? If women knew before marriage would they have married us? If the answer is no there's more to it than cross dressing surely? Feel free to add questions and answers to this thread.. It could be an interesting one seeing both sides of the coin here.. Seems a flip of a coin if a wife will accept us cross dressing or not.. Davina