First impression is drag queens and gay men

i found though hes not quite a drag queen can be a drama queen and hes bisexual when crossdressed so there is something in thinking and first impressions as a wife.

I wonder if younger women see it the same or different as times change.

Hannah (wife)

Between 2-5% of men crossdress according to this which is broadly in line with 1 in 20! Obviously the definition of what constitutes a crossdresser may vary from lingerie to full blown.

At a football match I look around and think how many other crossdressers must there be in the crowd. If it's less then 20 then I know the answer 😂

Katie x

Having posted the 1 in 20 slide from the film I am going to say it sounds high to me when you translate it - as above - to 600,000 men. I am guessing there is not an accurate way to do that survey - which if you would openly tell a stranger when asked - so maybe it’s more of a guestimate than estimate.

Love White chicks hear they are making white chicks 2 but maybe pandemic stopped that for now.

The Sean Bean film i didn't like i watched it with my husband and we both cringed a bit and struggled to watch it it just felt awkward for us watching it and Silence of the Lambs only watching it back did i remember the killer making a suit out of the women he killed eww.

What enters my mind now is different from what entered my mind in the past.

Now i know my husband and you lovely t girls my impression is you're nomal (most of you lol) and crossdressing is letting the softer side through which you hide away and you escape into this fem side for relaxation and a bit of fun. My husband is certainly relaxed after a whole weekend en fem.

Before and back to before I found Davinas blog and here i associated it with drag queens, perverts, and found it something that in general comedians did for laughs.

It's a lot more widespread than we think and 1 in 20 is wow if its true.

Emma (Wife)

Shit the bed ! 👏

I’d say I would take your lead...but I don’t really fancy Mike Ashley fiddling with my tits thank you...

Seriously?? You are my hero then. Respect.

I have been sorely tempted but never had the nerve!

You need a fitting at M&S Katie in that case...

My first time out was at Pink Punters, for the trans and CD monthly BNO (Big night out)

The hotel opposite is called the Campanile, had a drink in the bar there but wouldn't stay in the hotel, I was advised not to.

The bar in the Campanile was heaving with t-girls and then the same up in the cocktail lounge in pinks, never had a problem with anyone, all very friendly, some very quiet others a little bit clicky most attention I got was from a lesbian who looked me up and down.

I've only managed to go there the once as then Covid hit.

Not that that’s ever happened to me you understand 😳

He’s the one with remnants of nail glue on his nails Davina...

It just shows how you could walk past someone you know really well and they would not have a clue who you were

Shoes look a bit big though

Did anyone see the Rhod Gilbert programme about work experience and he was made up by the Femesque dressing service, the transformation was amazing, unrecognisable

That figure seems high to me but I’ve always assumed there must be over 100,000 of ‘them’, I mean ‘us’, in the country. Although, and here I may be completely wrong, that assumes there’s an equal distribution across ethnic groups, and it may be my imagination but ‘it’ seems more of a white dude’s thing? This is in absolutely no way meant as a loaded comment, at all, but that’s how I perceive it. In which case you then ask yourself...is it a cultural / social / environmental thing in any way, or simply genetic, or a mixture of the two.

If this is roughly correct and we say there are around 16m males in the country, then we’re looking at 800,000 crossdreamers in the UK. Jesus no wonder Victoria’s Secret is so profitable!

One in 20 and that was in the 90s? Wonder what it is now.

At the end, just before the credits roll, they flash up this. You are not alone.