We’ve all heard of, or experienced, the pink mist which descends on many of us crossdressers when we’re en femme or when we’ve been able to talk to our wives and GF’s and made some progress with acceptance of our Crossdressing.
In terms of opportunity to dress, for most of us it seems, this pink mist usually starts descending a few days or hours before we start getting ready or know we have an opportunity to crossdress and picture what dress or skirt, sexy lingerie, hosiery, makeup and heels plus accessories we’re gonna wear.
Once the mist appears especially if we’ve not dressed for a while we can think of nothing else but getting dressed; getting made up and letting our alter-egos escape for a few hours. It’s been 2 weeks since I last dressed and I’ve got the urge...
Excitement and anticipation, the cocktail of feelings of excitement and euphoria sweep us along inexplicably.. Why do we Crossdress? Who cares?
Our minds will be in a whirl, our senses dulled by the euphoria, yet invigorated by the feelings which we can barely control. When cross dressed, we can feel different temporarily and relaxed, sexy, turned on, calm, de-stressed...
So, what do we do? Well some of us
Well, one thing (chatting to lots of tgirls) Crossdressers do when dressed is to sometimes take risks; at times very big risks. Risks that when we are not dressed en femme we would never contemplate; it would be irrational, and, well, downright risky!
Some examples, t girls have shared with me when en femme and some I’ve done myself:
Risk #1: Getting dressed and going for a drive in the car.. what if someone recognised the car? What if neighbours saw you leave the house dressed to get to the car or saw you coming back? I’ve not done this one myself.
Risk #2: Going into the office / work dressed when no one is there. I’ve heard of a few t girls who have dared to go into the office on the weekend when no ones there and dress.
Risk #3: Crossdressed at home and waited until the last minute to rush back to male mode just before wife or GF got home (I’ve done this one loads of times before Esme knew I dressed)
Risk#4: Crossdressed as payment for house sitting. I’ve heard so many t girls who have admitted to house sitting or checking up on family, friend or neighbours house and decided to try things on or get fully en fem.
Risk#5: Leaving the hotel dressed. One I’ve done when away with work leaving my phone charger in the car I was in the hotel in my highest heels in my room … do I take off all the makeup etc or risk leaving my room and going to the car who cares if someone sees me I look ok.. Lots have done this or gone for a walk around the hotel en fem.
Risk#6: Going for a walk locally crossdressed. The closest thing I’ve done to this is turning all the lights out in the house when dressed at night and gone out the back garden in the dark and once put the bins out as Davina lol, (The noise the bins made eeek) but some t girls take it a bit further and go for a walk around the block.. what if a neighbour saw you leave or return?.. risk is low in winter months with curtains closed in the street unless someone came home in the car or came out of the house as you were passing...
Risk#7: Meeting other t girls. I met a t girl as male me with him in male mode also. He was purging some brand new things (Fake boobs, a wig, some heels) and asked if I would like them so I said ok and ran it by Esme. It was nice meeting someone else and talking about crossdressing not giving the risk a thought of what if he’s a nutter, what if he followed me home and found out where I lived? He didn’t lol but is meeting others and outing yourself a risk?
Risk#8: Going shopping en fem. I’ve heard from lots of T girls who go out enfem shopping or to a makeup counter to have a MAC makeover in an open shop. Brave if you ask me to do this. Risk of abuse more than anything.
Risk#9: Meeting other t girls dressed in hotels or Tgirl venues. Lots of T girls have done this dressed and what’s the risk? Nothing if it’s purely meeting to dress together and talk about crossdressing just meeting another t girl, but some t girls have intentions of seduction in mind which is a risk and awkward if you don’t reciprocate finding yourself in an awkward situation of a t girl coming onto you and there you are dressed can’t just up and leave without getting changed “Awkward”.
Risk#10: Webcam chatting. Yep done this with some wives and some T girls and I suppose the risk is you open the cam and its someone you know so risk of being outed but then if you’re chatting to someone in the T world and you recognise them you’re both outed. Even worse is working from home en fem and you join a web ex meeting and realise you’re broadcasting live to work as a t girl.. Yep I’ve done that and got away with it lol.
Any other Risks you’ve taken we could add here?
Davina
Must admit wev e done some of the list of can be quite exciting being in public and worrying how people may react but looking the part helps. A lot of us here have come a long way accepting crossdressing and allowing it to grow.
Rebecca (wife)