By: Sindy

Subject: Fears

So, 'tis the season and all that, so I thought I'd write something related to the fears of partners, in case some frightened wife discovers this secret over the holidays and finds herself here. Sometimes it's enough just to realize others have thought and felt the same.

Anyway, these are some of the fears I have had along the way:

- My husband must be gay

- He crossdresses in public

- He wants to live as a woman

- Horror, he wants surgery!

- He's mentally unstable and has a thing for his mother (ok, maybe that was just me lol)

- I bet he looks ridiculous

- This will destroy my sexual attraction

- He's going to dress during sex

- He will be seen by the kids/neighbors/postman

- He is more attracted to his female self than me

- There's no point dressing sexy because he'd rather wear it

- He's always hiding something

- He's a compulsive liar

- He will leave me for a woman who likes cross dressing

- He will spend all our money on clothing

- The dressing will progress to taking over our lives

- We will never have a normal marriage

- Divorce is inevitable so why bother

Of course, the husbands reading here can also get an idea of some of the fears that can run through a wife's head either immediately or over time. There are many more and plenty of women will think all of this, some, none or maybe something else entirely. Some might be delighted with the reveal!

Anyway, happy hols everyone. Be merry, but mostly be kind. x