By: Emma RG

Subject: Dressing myself up

I've now spent a few weeks dressing myself up as opposed to dressing down for work and at home.

Some of the chatter has spurned me on particularly the discussion about how we find a husband then we stop making the effort to look nice for him and for ourselves and decide to wear flats and trousers and jeans and no makeup.

It hit a chord in me and made me think he's crossdressing and not wholey but partly whatever size because I've stopped dressing nice for him and myself.

I know it won't stop his crossdressing as its an ingrained part of him now but every morning I get up, shower have been making more of an effort with makeup and my hair, even wearing it down most days, I've been wearing matching undies and most days a dress, tights and moderate heels.

It has been refreshing for me I feel like a new woman going back to dressing nice every day as opposed to drab or maybe that's the wrong expression.

People in work have noticed and responded well to my new look which is really my old look revamped, he is over the moon that I am making an effort again and we went shopping last week and I bought new heels, a few new dresses, skirts and tops. We got him/her a few items too.

Thanks for the chatter in here between Wife (Sindy), Davina and Katie it's made me think a lot about myself let alone why he crossdresses which I feel is more insignificant than I used to think and worry about.

My fella is defiantly a "Davina type Crossdresser" too

More of this is starting to make a little sense but still don't know really why he crossdresses but the blog has given me some ideas why.