I had to go into a local Boots chemist on Friday looking for some nail polish, got what I wanted and headed for the counter.
A young Asian girl about 20 was going to serve me, so I plonked two bottles of bright red nail polish and a bottle of clear varnish on the counter, so she says "I guess these aren't for you"!
Me, "actually yes they are for me"!
She looks at me thinking I'm joking, then realises I'm not kidding,
Me, "that's shocked you hasn't it"?
Her, "well i suppose I shouldn't of jumped to conclusions should i"?
I paid for the polish and she's still going on about not sure if I'm telling the truth.
So I whip out my phone and show her my profile picture.
Her, OH WOW!!!! her mouth still open, that's not you! Yes that's me, she was blown away!
Never expected that reaction, she said "your eyebrows are spot on, but I did confess it wasn't my own work and it was a professional makeover, but she was not expecting to see what she saw, and complimented me on how good I looked!!😁
I didn't walk out of that shop, i bloody floated out!!!
That's the first time I've shown my photo to anyone outside of the community and it was a great feeling to get a reaction like that from a total stranger.😁😁😁
Hi Hannah, yeah it is like being in a hole and being in limbo, it's living a double life, half in and half out of the closet.
My wife knows, but won't interact with Catriona not even to see a photo so I keep her hidden even though she knows.
I tell her what I'm planning to do and ask for permission to have a makeover and go out dressed as Cat, and she's fine with that, no sign of resentment or worry of what might happen.
Her mood never changes now, she seems happy and everything carries on as normal as if I was just going out with my mates.
OK you're not gay and most crossdressers are the same i guess straight, bi or bi curious or for some they like men only when dressed they like to be flattered and flirted with or more and some t girls fancy other t girls some new form of bi translebian label where t girls get off with other t girls either on cam, over the phone, in chatrooms or meeting in person.
I don't fancy other T-girls! I admire some of them for how much work and effort goes into looking as female as possible.
Is that something you've done or thought of?
No I've never been on cam or spoken on the phone to other t-girls, the only person I've met is the MUA who did my makeover/ photo shoot and then video interview.
Paul is gay, he is married to another guy, they are both crossdressers! I later found out!
I've only messaged other T-girls on messanger but only on a social level.
This may sound like boasting, it's not meant to, i get hit on just about everyday on messanger, either from men trying to strike up a conversation or other transgender and T-girls! It gets annoying after a while!
But every so often I'll get propositioned from a closet lesbian cis woman, I've learned to spot them as the way they talk is more gentle, they won't ask for photos, they are gentle with the questioning, (I like that)
Some of them are very shy and some scared because of their culture and fear of being found out.
You can see they want to be with another woman and are fascinated by trans and T-girls but are affraid to show that in public.
Cat xx