Davina - not may article and editing it slightly to suit our forum as i read it for the first time.. I’m hoping to find some hope in here as I need to escape somehow, to destress as Davina.

Something that is of great concern for every crossdresser out there. 

Assuming that most tgirls reading this, if not all, find their “en-femme” times relaxing. 

We struggle getting through those times when indulging in one of our favourite experiences is hard or impossible altogether. 

There are situations, like having visitors staying over at your house, children who you’ve not told about your crossdressing or in the middle of a trip when we are stuck with boring male clothes.  

Keep reading and learn to plan ahead for these times in the best way possible! 

Identifying Those Moments Ahead 

There are many situations when wearing feminine clothes will be very hard. Since many crossdressers enjoy these moments in privacy and secrecy, it’s hard for social individuals to be open about it. 

The fear of being misunderstood and the stress that explaining this “hobby” to outsiders can produce is not worth the trouble most of the time. 

So if we want to avoid or get through the moments where our crossdressing is impossible, the first thing to do is identify the moments and situations that could prevent us to do so and look for openings in our busy lives where we must indulge and use the time wisely. 

Below, some of the most obvious scenarios when wearing as much as a pair of knickers/panties can cause us some uncomfortable situations. 

The list is based on the writers personal experience and routine.

As always, I encourage you to comment below on what you think of it and add your thoughts.

Fishing or Hunting Trip

 Davina - Ahh must be written by an American as usBrits dont do a lot of “hunting”

Perhaps not everyone’s cup of tea, but a fishing or hunting trip can be an interesting, fun, and eye-opening experience. 

Not to mention a very masculine one. 

When going on an escapade like this, likely, you will only find very “macho” guys to go with, at least that’s what most men will try to project. 

And let’s be honest, it can be hard to be openly feminine still in this world. For better or for worse, trips like these are often done over a weekend, so it is not that much time you will need to keep your desires at bay. 

The reason I’m saying this is because unless you and your group of friends are willing to spend a lot of money on this kind of trip, you will have little privacy to change or wash your clothes.

Davina - I’d assumed this was a ruse to get away for the weekend to dress an excuse for the wife / kids etc where you are and what you’re doing when you’re really spending a weekend presenting female. 

Going on Vacations

You’ve been working or studying hard all year and you’ve earned your well-deserved vacations. 

Finally, you found yourself with lots of free time to enjoy however you want. If you managed to save some money, you might even think of going away for the time being. 

But that’s when we found ourselves with some inconveniences regarding our crossdressing.

Spending lots of uninterrupted time with someone else is a great hassle if they don’t share or are comfortable with your love for feminine clothes. Especially if you are sharing your room with someone else! If not, you can probably get away at least with wearing panties underneath your clothes.

Davina - I’ve chatted to lots of tgirls who go abroad and present fem which must be nice but I also think abroad in heat how do you stop makeup sweating off? And the writer mentions wearing “panties” .. doesnt do it for me it’s all or nothing.

But beware! Going on a vacation means being open to exploring new places and experiences. 

Some of this exploration, even if it is only walking on a snowy street, can lead to unfortunate accidents that can expose your secret to your traveling company!

Davina - a bag search may be interesting too in front of everyone at the airport, fake tits, blonde wig, womens clothing size 8 high heels… 

Moving Away

Davina - a bit drastic this lol

Moving to a new place is one of the most stressful things you can do, believe me, I would know. 

But you don’t have to take my word for it! There are many studies done by professionals that back my words. 

But if there’s one thing most researchers could have overlooked, are crossdressers. 

Think of all your secret stash and how problematic it could be to move them from the back of your closet without giving yourself away! 

Especially if you have a lot of shoes! 

Moving to a new place sure is chaotic and your mind will try to be everywhere at once, a tough thing to do! In this case, I suggest you pack all of your feminine stashes first, and without leaving any sight of evidence. Make sure you pack it first, not only so you won’t forget it at your old place, but also this way it will be the last thing you unpack once you get to the privacy of your new place!

Davina -  It must be hard as a closet t girl hiding feminine things and moving house would be hard concealing your fem things.. Before i read this i thought the writer meant move house so you can crossdress more hence a bit drastic comment,

Living with Family or Roommates

Davina - Here’s my situation when the kids get older living with family who arent in the know about your fem side.

Every crossdresser reading this has likely been in a similar situation. 

It is very hard to wait for the moment you are home alone for a long time to dress up to the nines! 

Let alone keep your activities and the evidence of them a secret! 

Even getting something delivered to your place can be a dead giveaway!

Davina - and ordering online also leaves traces if you have an amazon account for example that your kids also order from. Amazon definitely know I’m a crossdresser.. A wonder Alexa hasn’t called me Davina yet the wigs and a few books on my kindle about crossdressing lol.

 From my personal experience, this kind of scenario can be hard and stressful to deal with but not impossible. 

I believe I’m talking for everyone else that has been in this situation before when I say every crossdresser out there becomes a master strategist getting the most of their time when home alone. 

Davina - Yes but then such a kick in the balls when you plan a space in everyones diary to find one of the kids is ill so staying home or something cancelled so opportunity lost.

Even bedtime becomes a safe space to at least wear some of your cutest panties!

Davina - Not if your wife doesnt want you wearing knickers in bed with her.

Repairing or Modifying Your House

Talking about stress, am I right? 

If there is one thing that gets up my nerves is waiting for repairmen that never come at the time and date they are supposed to. 

Davina - Or being crossdressed and the window cleaner turns up and is washing the windows whilst youre dolled up in heels stockings and a dress.

For us, crossdressers, this makes it impossible to relax and feel at home in our own house. 

But a minor internet troubleshooting is no comparison when you have construction going on at your address. 

Builders come and go, obliterating your calmness and your privacy.

In this case, it seems that all we are left with is our time at night after the work shift is done and you are alone once again. 

Davina - After work we all go home to our family and are taxis for the kids, cooking and cleaning to get on with in our meterosexual lives, There is no opportunity at night to dress. 

But beware! One can easily forget to leave some panties drying after use. 

If your mind is set on indulging your feminine desires nonetheless, my recommendation is you do after they are gone, and hide the dirty clothes until you can wash them over the weekend. 

Davina - Over the weekend is the worst time with both kids home.

And remember to check the weather so you can dry your clothes properly!

Davina - I’ve never pegged my lingerie on our washing line 

Guests Staying Over

A true dilemma for every socialite crossdresser. 

As a person that loves having people over and enjoying some quality time with them, I must admit that it is hard to shake the feeling that I will be wearing boring male clothes during their stay. 

Perhaps, this is the trickiest situation of all the ones listed in this article. From the moment you open your door to your guests, the most unpredictable and unwanted can happen.

 Davina - unless you’ve got rid of the kids and the people staying over are another in the know couple a wife and crossdressing husband then its an opportunity maybe.. Not something we’ve done though but I know some crossdressing couples who have and do do this.

That’s why I believe that in this scenario, the best thing to do is to stash everything securely somewhere that not even by chance your guests could come across it. 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you treat your guests like intruders. They wouldn’t be your guests if so. 

But in the excitement of having guests over, you can forget there are things that they aren’t supposed to see!

Is it a Good Idea to “Purge” Beforehand?

A tricky question indeed. 

I believe that the thought of long and uninterrupted crossdressing sessions to get it out of your system before dealing with any of the previous situations may have crossed your mind. 

If you can control your feminine desires well and organize your time to leave everything clean before being unable to, I don’t think it is a bad idea at all. 

I have done this myself. 

But the problem appears because of the very nature of crossdressing: we love it so much we don’t want to stop. 

Davina - in terms of the time you have crossdressed running out this is true.. I have been dressed and not wanted to change back but have had to and times i’ve dressed a few days in a row and had my fill.. Chance would be a fine thing. Ahh the memories of being able to crossdress more freely.

This feeling can make us forget to do our laundry in time before complications appear. 

Moreover, letting your feminine energy flow freely before chaining it deep down within you can make your vacations, trip, or having guests less enjoyable. 

If you feel like this could be a problem, you can “detox” some days earlier to avoid feeling the lack of your favorite clothes!

Alternative Feminine Routines

I think that crossdressing is an ode to femininity. That said, I believe that even though clothes put the “dress” in our favorite activity, it isn’t the whole story. 

I realized not so long ago that there are a lot of things to keep your femme desires controlled over long periods of time by abiding by this idea of celebrating femininity in other ways.

Like moisturizing your skin after getting out of the shower, keeping your intimate parts shaved, following a skincare routine, and much more! 

There are many ideas that we often write about in the blog! 

Be sure to check the articles that interest you the most on our website and discover new things about the feminine energy within you!

This is all for today, gals! 

I hope this little post has helped you plan better before you are stuck in male mode for a long time. 

I’m well aware that this lifestyle that we lead is not for everyone to understand but they are the ones missing out! 

Even if sometimes we have to lay low for a while, celebrating femininity is something that I and most of our readers here won’t stop doing! 

Davina - The article was more about the blockers .. damn.. I was hoping the writer may have had some solutions.. Ah well worth a post to keep the forum going.