Hell YES (well maybe not every morning). I'd like to dress at home and be able to keep (some) of my things at home but I'm not sure I'm ready to be Suzzanne where we live for many of the reasons already mentioned. Openly being Suzzanne somewhere else, not a problem.
I'm not sure how one of my brothers and his wife would take the fact that the first time I've every gone out dressed, I walked along their road and past thier house (I was away from home myself at the time to visit family and just happend to be staying in a hotel not far from where they lived). I'd love similar opportunities but I'm not ready to have those on my own doorstep.
I'd go out more as Davina (more? I've not gone out as Davina for 6-7 years..
People would discover my Crossdressing (Parents, Friends and work and it would reflect negative on us)
I'm not about to come out to the world but I do enjoy being made up, I love lingerie it feels much nicer than male underware and I feel nicer and more chilled out as Davina
So my conclusion is if it were at all possible noting I work from home a lot id probably if I had the privacy decide when I get up each day how I feel like presenting when I'm home alone and a lot of the time I think I'd chose the knickers, dresses, makeup fem option and spend my day as Davina working from home but then I have to change back before no longer alone so would even be better if I didn't have a deadline and I could just stay dressed for the rest of the day..
Still the most I've dressed is around 6-7 hours in a day.
I'd definitely take more opportunity to be fully dressed though if I could.. that would do my mental health wonders..
Did she know about Davina before you got married? My wife was aware but we never have discussed it and she certainly has no interest in participating. I do what I can when I can.
I crossdressed since a kid but dating my wife and getting married Crossdressing was rare so didn't feel the need to confide in her.. my crossdressing blossomed more in marriage.
I think women feel afraid when they find out. For some it is beyond the pale but there is an interesting phenomenon that occurs in a lot of marriages. Most wive’s greatest fear is their husband cheating. When they find out that the secret is X-dressing some use it as a tool for power and turn the marriage into a FLR.
I can identify with what you are feeling. It takes so long to really dress properly and do make up, wigs, nails and then to just undo everything after a short experience. The times I have gone out for several hours were definitely an exciting experience.
Most definitely. It would be great not to have to put on lashes, nails, etc. It would be great to have the freedom to live an extended time as a woman.
That's a tough call as the feelings come and go. Largely I want to be fem as an expression of a side to me that is so constrained and not at all in line with my career path. Usually stress can be a trigger, but mostly I only feel I can be Ally when I know I can relax and have the time to just de-stress. If these constraints weren't there anymore and I didn't feel any shame, hatred, etc from the world then probably I'd be happy to be Ally more often.
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Hell YES (well maybe not every morning). I'd like to dress at home and be able to keep (some) of my things at home but I'm not sure I'm ready to be Suzzanne where we live for many of the reasons already mentioned. Openly being Suzzanne somewhere else, not a problem.
I'm not sure how one of my brothers and his wife would take the fact that the first time I've every gone out dressed, I walked along their road and past thier house (I was away from home myself at the time to visit family and just happend to be staying in a hotel not far from where they lived). I'd love similar opportunities but I'm not ready to have those on my own doorstep.
I would 100% the feelings of being free to dress how I want why not
It's one of my wife's fears
I'd present as Davina a lot more
I'd go out more as Davina (more? I've not gone out as Davina for 6-7 years..
People would discover my Crossdressing (Parents, Friends and work and it would reflect negative on us)
I'm not about to come out to the world but I do enjoy being made up, I love lingerie it feels much nicer than male underware and I feel nicer and more chilled out as Davina
So my conclusion is if it were at all possible noting I work from home a lot id probably if I had the privacy decide when I get up each day how I feel like presenting when I'm home alone and a lot of the time I think I'd chose the knickers, dresses, makeup fem option and spend my day as Davina working from home but then I have to change back before no longer alone so would even be better if I didn't have a deadline and I could just stay dressed for the rest of the day..
Still the most I've dressed is around 6-7 hours in a day.
I'd definitely take more opportunity to be fully dressed though if I could.. that would do my mental health wonders..
I can identify with what you are feeling. It takes so long to really dress properly and do make up, wigs, nails and then to just undo everything after a short experience. The times I have gone out for several hours were definitely an exciting experience.
Most definitely. It would be great not to have to put on lashes, nails, etc. It would be great to have the freedom to live an extended time as a woman.
I'd love to get out at all. I've wandered around the edges of town at night. That's different because it's a bit kinky and all about adrenaline.
I'd like to see how it feels to just fit in. Wearing nice clothes and feeling comfortable. Trying to find that happy place I can get to alone at home.
That's a tough call as the feelings come and go. Largely I want to be fem as an expression of a side to me that is so constrained and not at all in line with my career path. Usually stress can be a trigger, but mostly I only feel I can be Ally when I know I can relax and have the time to just de-stress. If these constraints weren't there anymore and I didn't feel any shame, hatred, etc from the world then probably I'd be happy to be Ally more often.